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When I need to time the eff out, I time the eff out, and I make no apologies about it. Not something that I always did, and it caused a lot of grief in my life.
So, I often feel the messaging behind self-care has gotten a little whacked out. Itโs all about taking baths, getting manicures, and taking long walks on the beach. And all of that is well and good, but what is the point of it all if at the end the day the circumstances that caused you stress in the first place havenโt been dealt with?
I also feel that people often use โself-careโ as a license to be an asshole, while continuing to engage self-destructive behavior.
For me, self-care is about doing the hard work. The often gut-wrenching, soul-crushing work that forces you to come to terms with the cards you have been dealt. You have to build credibility to YOURSELF!๐๐๐๐
So "What Does Self-Care" truly mean?๐ค๐๐๐๐
I am happy to report that I feel the most solid Iโve felt in a long time and itโs because I actually practice self-care. Most Days... Anxiety FREE!!!!!!!๐๐๐
๐Self-care is accepting that people may not want to be your friend forever, and allowing those people the freedom to choose to let you go. Relationships end, and they should if they aren't healthy... I love and care for myself enough to know that if you donโt want me, I donโt want you.
๐Self-care is being aware of your triggers and your boundaries, thereby granting you the power to control who and what you let into your life.
๐Self-care is owning that you have work to do, but not using this fact as a crutch. Everyone has work to do, so do the work.
๐Self-care is learning to say Iโm sorry, and meaning it.
๐Self-care is being able to look in the mirror every day and knowing that you are a good person who treats people with kindness and fairness.
Sure, take time out to treat yourself every once in a while. Give yourself time, every day, to just breathe and be present. But donโt forget that real self-care begins when you commit yourself to being the best version of yourself.
And trust me, you wonโt find her in a nail salon.๐
Like these tips??โค๏ธ๐๐๐๐
Join my Mindset Hacking Facebook Group.ย
https://hillaryplauche.lpages.co/5-day-mindset-hack/
By HILLARY Plauche๐ฅ๐ฅ๐ฅ๐ฅ๐ฅ๐ฅ๐ฅ
When I need to time the eff out, I time the eff out, and I make no apologies about it. Not something that I always did, and it caused a lot of grief in my life.
So, I often feel the messaging behind self-care has gotten a little whacked out. Itโs all about taking baths, getting manicures, and taking long walks on the beach. And all of that is well and good, but what is the point of it all if at the end the day the circumstances that caused you stress in the first place havenโt been dealt with?
I also feel that people often use โself-careโ as a license to be an asshole, while continuing to engage self-destructive behavior.
For me, self-care is about doing the hard work. The often gut-wrenching, soul-crushing work that forces you to come to terms with the cards you have been dealt. You have to build credibility to YOURSELF!๐๐๐๐
So "What Does Self-Care" truly mean?๐ค๐๐๐๐
I am happy to report that I feel the most solid Iโve felt in a long time and itโs because I actually practice self-care. Most Days... Anxiety FREE!!!!!!!๐๐๐
๐Self-care is accepting that people may not want to be your friend forever, and allowing those people the freedom to choose to let you go. Relationships end, and they should if they aren't healthy... I love and care for myself enough to know that if you donโt want me, I donโt want you.
๐Self-care is being aware of your triggers and your boundaries, thereby granting you the power to control who and what you let into your life.
๐Self-care is owning that you have work to do, but not using this fact as a crutch. Everyone has work to do, so do the work.
๐Self-care is learning to say Iโm sorry, and meaning it.
๐Self-care is being able to look in the mirror every day and knowing that you are a good person who treats people with kindness and fairness.
Sure, take time out to treat yourself every once in a while. Give yourself time, every day, to just breathe and be present. But donโt forget that real self-care begins when you commit yourself to being the best version of yourself.
And trust me, you wonโt find her in a nail salon.๐
Like these tips??โค๏ธ๐๐๐๐
Join my Mindset Hacking Facebook Group.ย
https://hillaryplauche.lpages.co/5-day-mindset-hack/