If I make a promise to myself, if I commit to something myself, I get self-confidence by keeping that promise, by keeping those words.

Self-confidence is Keeping Promises to Yourself

Walk and talk with John Enslow

Hey there, I just wanna talk about something real quick. I wanna talk about self-confidence, what self-confidence is. Self-confidence is having confidence that you can keep the promises you make to yourself. So that’s a beautiful thing. If I make a promise to myself, if I commit to something myself, I get self-confidence by keeping that promise, by keeping those words and that’s beautiful. So self-confidence is confidence in self; what I commit to do. So if I commit to do something, if I say I’m gonna do this…this is what I’m gonna do, and I don’t do it. I am chipping away, just chiseling away at my confidence level. And our psyche and our soul knows that were not keeping the promises that we make to our self.  But when I make a commitment and I make a proclamation, and I make an affirmation of myself, I’m not lying to myself, I’m doing it with complete intention to complete to fulfill what I’m committing to. 

So when I’m doing my visualization. I get vision of what I want. Number 2 is that I’ve decided what I’m committed to 100%. That I will achieve this and there is no “I can’t.” It’s I will do this, this is what I’m doing. and I have to have the absolute reason why I’m doing it. If I don’t have a purpose  I don’t have a reason behind what I’m committing to, it’s not gonna get done. 

Our visualization have to be connected to, not only purpose, not only vision, but our commitment and our reason. Our reason for why we’re doing it. What is our reason? What is the burn? What is the fuel behind it? For instance, if you were saying, “I will lose the hundred pounds that I have, that I need to lose to be healthy. And then if you connect it with, because I wanna walk my daughter down the aisle and I don’t want to be gone. I wanna see her and I want to give her away and I want to dance with her at her wedding. Those are purposes and reasons and things that fuel us to continue to go on and to match our commitment. Our 100% commitment. And then you have to visit it often. You have to literally visit it saying, these are the reason, this is my vision, this is what I’m committed to 100%. These are the reasons I’m doing it and what I will do. It’s empowering. What I will do! 

So self-confidence isn’t going off the rails and detaching ourselves from the will of God and the purposes of God. I gained the vision, I gained the commitment that I’m doing from the Lord and how I’m gonna proceed to go forward. But where I get the self-confidence is, that I meet His will, His purpose, His plans and then I fulfill those and keep those promises that I made to myself. And the fruit that is amazing because all it does is open up your confidence level, your joy, your life and you say, “I’m gonna get this done, I’m gonna achieve this!” And then the fruit of it having it done feels so good. It’s just stacking the proof that you are a promise keeper to yourself.  That you are committed 100% to what you commit to. This makes us an amazing power source, and an amazing person and it builds our self-confidence. It makes us feel confident. And we can walk in this world, and we can be confident because we keep promise to our self. 

So I hope that helped you and I hope you will build your self-confidence. That you will keep the promises that you made to yourself and that you will go the distance and fulfill your purpose, your divine purpose in this world in this life. 

True self-confidence isn’t about external validation—it’s about keeping the promises you make to yourself. In this episode, we explore how commitment, purpose, and aligned action build unshakable confidence, empowering you to step into your fullest potential.

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