To get out of the condition of unemployment you need to take charge of yourself. Taking charge of yourself, showing self-control, and being responsible for your actions are crucial to maturing and developing as a person. Without self-control, you run the risk of developing addictions, losing money, gaining weight, or otherwise developing unhealthy habits. 

Not taking responsibility for yourself and your actions can be detrimental to yourself and your relationships. 

Taking charge of yourself is an important part of being a fully developed and well-functioning adult. There are ways to improve this behavior, however.