For the first part of this two-part series, I’m talking in depth to Arj, my oldest and first best friend, about self love and the affect it has on our lives. We constantly see people on social media posting about accepting your flaws and loving who you are—but how do we get there, and what’s on the way? Is self-love even a destination, or is it a journey? We’ll get into the weeds about what it looks like when self-esteem is low, and what the first steps are to molding your mindset.