Self-Love Question-What are 3 negative mindsets I need to let go of?

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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ahjduoFqJXw

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VwROPb6a8RY

https://www.happierhuman.com/self-sabotaging/

https://www.caminorecovery.com/blog/how-to-recognize-the-signs-of-self-sabotage/

https://www.talkspace.com/blog/4-signs-youre-self-sabotaging-how-to-stop/

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BWy3mDbpd2A

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=O3GQRcvfOxk