Fair warning: this episode contains a lot of intimate detail about my personal journey with self pleasure, and some details about my sexual relationship with my husband. In this episode I discuss what my journey with masturbation has been like, how using toys changed my life, and some of the ways we keep things hot and fresh as a long term couple with small children! The takeaway for this episode is that we can all benefit from self pleasure and getting to know our bodies. And, if you are late to the game, you are not alone! Please feel free to reach out with questions, comments, or for an open and non-judgemental ear, at:

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