It's 2021 babes, and you know what one of the HOTTEST qualities about a person is?! The ability to self reflect, take responsibility, and be accountable.  Listen, we get it- self reflection can be scary. Holding a mirror up to yourself and taking a hard look at patterns of behavior, past decisions, mistakes, and some of your not so awesome moments can be tough.  But, doing so not only highlights things you want to improve on, it can also help showcase your strengths and things you should be proud of!  Self reflection is such an important practice for personal development and growth.  It will not only improve your relationship with yourself, but also your relationships with others.  But remember, it isn't meant to be a shameful exercise.  We've all made mistakes, we've all handled things poorly at times. Recognize those moments, but show yourself grace and compassion because what matters most is your desire to be better next time.