Circle Holding

Separation, Ordeal, Return: Creating Men's Circles with Lee Stegels


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In this episode, Julia and Lee covered:

• How men are often attracted to circle when they’re at crisis point
• The application process for the closed group after being part of an open one
• The structure of the meeting allows deep sharings to happen: ‘freedom within form’
• How he provides several opportunities to talk, with longer each time for more depth
• Silence can be part of a person’s allotted time
• Structure, intention and timeframe are three important aspects to consider
• Rites of passage for men include grief and facing fear
• Working with 14-16 year old boys involves matching then with a ‘man of trust’ who has done his own work
• It’s important to attend a circle yourself as a facilitator and have your own self-practice
• Toxic masculinity is toxic terminology – there is zero tolerance to sexist, racist or homophobic language, but use of it rarely happens in circle
• Lee shares how to do an introduction to a men’s circle and a settling practice

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To learn more about facilitating circles you can join one of our trainings:

https://www.circleholding.org
Circle Holding Fundamentals - introductory 3 hour workshop
https://www.circleholding.org/circle-fundamentals
Circle Holding Facilitator Training - 3 month training
https://www.circleholding.org/circle-holders-journey
Circle Holding Book Club - a fun way to work through the exercises
https://www.circleholding.org/book-club
Yoga Nidra & Circle Holding
https://www.circleholding.org/yoga-nidra-circle-holding
Circle Holding Self Study Programme
https://www.circleholding.org/self-study
Circle Holding Non-Residential Retreat - London
https://www.circleholding.org/weekend-retreat
Circle Holding Residential Retreat
https://www.circleholding.org/autumn-residential
Free Events and mini trainings - meet Julia & Tessa and get a taste of circle holding
https://www.circleholding.org/free-resources
We love to hear from circle facilitators and circle goers so please email us at [email protected]

Music credit: Fabio Venuti

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Circle HoldingBy Julia Davis and Tessa Venuti Sanderson