The Psalms speak to us in our longing and sorrows. If Jesus could lament his circumstances, certainly we can lament ours. "In my distress, I cry to the Lord, deliver me, O Lord." Sometimes we wonder where is God. It is ok to say to God that we are afraid. Tell God just exactly how you feel because God is big enough to hear anything you want to tell him. Honesty with God is a good thing. Great trials can create greater faith.