On this episode hosts Alexis and Sangodare discuss how grace, generosity, clear communication of needs, and non-judgment help them stay on the same team when neurodivergence, grief, or overwhelm makes tasks hard. They share an Audre Lorde excerpt about labor, love, fun, and purpose. They offer three “North Stars” and announce registration for the September Chrysalis Experience cohort during their 18th anniversary weekend.

• Household roles and nonjudgement
• Grace and Generosity
• Naming Needs

When Sangodare says “God is the source of our supply,” they are quoting Rev. Edwene Gaines an author and minister who spoke at Agape Spiritual Center. 

When Sangodare says “even my errors are correct” they are referencing Nikki Giovanni’s poem “Ego Tripping.”

When Alexis says “inherently valuable” she is always referencing the 1977 Combahee River Collective Statement. 

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Because love is living with purpose, join us for our second Chrysalis Cohort this September! More info here:https://www.blackfeministfilmschool.com/offers/oKhBLdfo

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On this mini episode hosts Alexis and Sangodare offer a clip from a live episode in the spring about using your voice. 

Because love is living with purpose, join us for our second Chrysalis Cohort this September! More info here:https://www.blackfeministfilmschool.com/offers/oKhBLdfo

If you want to support this podcast and have access to monthly live sessions with us and other goodies, join us on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/posts/did-i-mention-we-159287534

You can also send us a tax-deductible donation via “text to give."   Send a text to this number: 53-555.  All you have to put in your message is “September.” Then press send. You will get a text back from Black Feminist Film School which is helping us make this and all our production more sustainable for us and consistent for you. 

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alexispauline.com 

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On this episode hosts Alexis and Sangodare challenge the idea of separation across time, using Jewelle Gomez’s Black lesbian feminist vampire novel The Gilda Stories as a sacred text about kinship and multi-lifetime impact. They share three of their own practices for “living beyond one lifetime.” They offer three “North Stars” and announce registration for the September Chrysalis Experience cohort and retreat.

• Shared Ancestral Practice and Altars
• Black LGBTQ Movement Legacy: Mobile Homecoming
• Understanding Life Purpose Beyond our Lifetimes

If you want to support this podcast and have access to monthly live sessions with us and other goodies, join us on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/posts/did-i-mention-we-159287534

You can also send us a tax-deductible donation via “text to give."   Send a text to this number: 53-555.  All you have to put in your message is “September.” Then press send. You will get a text back from Black Feminist Film School which is helping us make this and all our production more sustainable for us and consistent for you. 

For more on our coaching and community building offerings, Click Here
https://www.mobilehomecoming.org/loveship

Because love is living with purpose, join us for our second Chrysalis Cohort this September! More info here:https://www.blackfeministfilmschool.com/offers/oKhBLdfo

And connect with us on the channels below!

RESOURCES 

https://sangodare.podia.com/ 

alexispauline.com 

sangodare.com 

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On this episode hosts Alexis and Sangodare focus on reclaiming the term “special” in a sincere way. They argue systems like capitalism and empire discourage recognizing inherent dignity and discuss why this self recognition is not vanity but deeply spiritual work. They close by announcing registration for the September Chrysalis Experience retreat via mobilehomecoming.org.

• Reclaiming Special
• Why Special Feels Risky
• Revolutionary Responsibility and Relationship as Witness

If you want to support this podcast and have access to monthly live sessions with us and other goodies, join us on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/posts/did-i-mention-we-159287534

You can also send us a tax-deductible donation via “text to give."   Send a text to this number: 53-555.  All you have to put in your message is “September.” Then press send. You will get a text back from Black Feminist Film School which is helping us make this and all our production more sustainable for us and consistent for you. 

For more on our coaching and community building offerings, Click Here
https://www.mobilehomecoming.org/loveship

Because love is living with purpose, join us for our first Chrysalis Cohort! More info here: https://luma.com/chrysaliscohort1

And connect with us on the channels below!

RESOURCES 

https://sangodare.podia.com/ 

alexispauline.com 

sangodare.com 

CONNECT WITH US

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On this episode hosts Sangodare and Alexis discuss purpose as “love flowing into form,” how society and capitalist value stories can separate people from purpose, and how natural gifts often become last on the to-do list. They unpack over-prioritizing support for others at the expense of their own creative practice, the need to value our most precious connections to source and consent around purpose-to-purpose relationships while respecting boundaries under scarcity.

• Collaboration as Artform
• Honor the Flow and Purpose
• Balancing work that feeds and work that takes…work

If you want to support this podcast and have access to monthly live sessions with us and other goodies, join us on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/posts/did-i-mention-we-159287534

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For more on our coaching and community building offerings, Click Here
https://www.mobilehomecoming.org/loveship

Because love is living with purpose, join us for our first Chrysalis Cohort! More info here: https://luma.com/chrysaliscohort1

And connect with us on the channels below!

RESOURCES 

https://sangodare.podia.com/ 

alexispauline.com 

sangodare.com 

CONNECT WITH US

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On this episode hosts Sangodare and Alexis introduce love as a collective superpower, arguing that love’s fullest power is not individual or confined to isolated couples or the nuclear family but lives on the scale of community and collective freedom. Drawing from Angela Davis’s autobiography, they highlight how her story centers collective support and love as forces that propelled her political commitment. They share 3 “North Stars” and call for social relations where all are loved and no one is sacrificed.

• Love Is Collective
• Love Beyond Individualism
• Tapping Into Presence

If you want to support this podcast and have access to monthly live sessions with us and other goodies, join us on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/posts/did-i-mention-we-159287534

You can also send us a tax-deductible donation via “text to give."   Send a text to this number: 53-555.  All you have to put in your message is “September.” Then press send. You will get a text back from Black Feminist Film School which is helping us make this and all our production more sustainable for us and consistent for you. 

For more on our coaching and community building offerings, Click Here
https://www.mobilehomecoming.org/loveship

Because love is living with purpose, join us for our first Chrysalis Cohort! More info here: https://luma.com/chrysaliscohort1

And connect with us on the channels below!

RESOURCES 

https://sangodare.podia.com/ 

alexispauline.com 

sangodare.com 

CONNECT WITH US

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On this episode hosts Sangodare and Alexis celebrate the New York Knicks winning their first NBA championship in 53 years, and how sports and fandom connects to the legacy of collective love and teamwork. Using Alexis’s Dad’s Knicks loyalty as a metaphor, they offer three north stars about how love is it’s own reason and answer a listener question about whether or not it makes sense to have a goal oriented approach to relationships.

• Love Unreasonably
• Lessons From Knicks Fandom
• Chrysalis Purpose Roadmap

If you want to support this podcast and have access to monthly live sessions with us and other goodies, join us on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/posts/did-i-mention-we-159287534

You can also send us a tax-deductible donation via “text to give."   Send a text to this number: 53-555.  All you have to put in your message is “September.” Then press send. You will get a text back from Black Feminist Film School which is helping us make this and all our production more sustainable for us and consistent for you. 

For more on our coaching and community building offerings, Click Here
https://www.mobilehomecoming.org/loveship

Because love is living with purpose, join us for our first Chrysalis Cohort! More info here: https://luma.com/chrysaliscohort1

And connect with us on the channels below!

RESOURCES 

https://sangodare.podia.com/ 

alexispauline.com 

sangodare.com 

CONNECT WITH US

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Website

Produced by Wowow Podcasts

On this episode hosts Sangodare and Alexis distinguish what is urgent (time-based) from what is important (value-based) amid capitalist pressures. Using experiences around Black Feminist Film School production and podcast scheduling, they emphasize that clarity about the important attracts community support, while urgency can undermine rest and presence. They invite listeners to a virtual Juneteenth Patreon date night and take a listener question on addressing a loved one dating someone potentially harmful.

• Urgent vs Important Explained
• Scarcity and Stolen Time
• Rest, Boundaries and ‘Passing It On’

For more on our coaching and community building offerings, Click Here
https://www.mobilehomecoming.org/loveship

Because love is living with purpose join us for our first Chrysalis Cohort! More info here: https://luma.com/chrysaliscohort1

If you are in Durham, join us for Black Feminist Revival services the last Sunday of the month at Northstar Church of the Arts.

Let us know what you think through the social channels below, and please leave a review so that like-minded people can find us. 

RESOURCES 

https://sangodare.podia.com/ 

alexispauline.com 

sangodare.com 

CONNECT WITH US

Facebook

Instagram

Website

Produced by Wowow Podcasts

If you want to support this podcast and have access to monthly live sessions with us and other goodies, join us on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/posts/did-i-mention-we-159287534

Join before June 19th (Juneteenth!) to be at our first virtual hangout session. #datenight

You can also send us a tax-deductible donation via “text to give."   Send a text to this number: 53-555.  All you have to put in your message is “September.” Then press send. You will get a text back from Black Feminist Film School which is helping us make this and all our production more sustainable for us and consistent for you. 

For more on our coaching and community building offerings, Click Here
https://www.mobilehomecoming.org/loveship

Because love is living with purpose, join us for our first Chrysalis Cohort! More info here: https://luma.com/chrysaliscohort1

And connect with us on the channels below!

RESOURCES 

https://sangodare.podia.com/ 

alexispauline.com 

sangodare.com 

CONNECT WITH US

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Website

Produced by Wowow Podcasts

In this episode hosts Sangodare and Alexis define what it does and doesn’t look like to spend intentional time together. They distinguish vacations, staycations and jaunts and how they draw distinction and boundaries between these experiences and work and family trips. They recount a recent jaunt involving deep conversations, play, and a near–EV battery mishap and cite Gwendolyn Brooks on blooming in the whirlwind. They answer a listener question about play and how levity builds agility, flexibility, and rediscovery. 

• Jaunt Vacation Staycation
• Calendar Boundaries
• Anniversary Jaunt Reflections
• Announcements and Farewell

If you want to support this podcast and have access to monthly live sessions with us and other goodies, join us on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/posts/did-i-mention-we-159287534

For more on our coaching and community building offerings, Click Here
https://www.mobilehomecoming.org/loveship

Because love is living with purpose, join us for our first Chrysalis Cohort! More info here: https://luma.com/chrysaliscohort1

Let us know what you think through the social channels below, and please leave a review so that like-minded people can find us. 

RESOURCES 

https://sangodare.podia.com/ 

alexispauline.com 

sangodare.com 

CONNECT WITH US

Facebook

Instagram

Website

Produced by Wowow Podcasts