On this episode hosts Sangodare and Alexis distinguish what is urgent (time-based) from what is important (value-based) amid capitalist pressures. Using experiences around Black Feminist Film School production and podcast scheduling, they emphasize that clarity about the important attracts community support, while urgency can undermine rest and presence. They invite listeners to a virtual Juneteenth Patreon date night and take a listener question on addressing a loved one dating someone potentially harmful.

• Urgent vs Important Explained
• Scarcity and Stolen Time
• Rest, Boundaries and ‘Passing It On’

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In this episode hosts Sangodare and Alexis define what it does and doesn’t look like to spend intentional time together. They distinguish vacations, staycations and jaunts and how they draw distinction and boundaries between these experiences and work and family trips. They recount a recent jaunt involving deep conversations, play, and a near–EV battery mishap and cite Gwendolyn Brooks on blooming in the whirlwind. They answer a listener question about play and how levity builds agility, flexibility, and rediscovery. 

• Jaunt Vacation Staycation
• Calendar Boundaries
• Anniversary Jaunt Reflections
• Announcements and Farewell

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In this episode hosts Sangodare and Alexis explore non-linear time, queer time, and the practice of loving every age of oneself and one’s partner. Using a conflict about an expensive pillow after mattress shopping, they discuss feeling unseen, re-parenting each other, and how multiple selves show up in adult life, while clarifying boundaries and rejecting any justification of harm to minors. They offer three “North Stars” and answer a listener question about date night as ritual. They announce a May 24 Revival service in Durham and June cohort registration for Chrysalis Life Purpose Roadmap.

• Love Every Age
• Timeless Love Lessons
• Intergenerational Orientation
• Boundaries and Date Night as Ritual

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In a live episode at North Star Church of the Arts in Durham, Sangodare and Alexis use a seafaring metaphor to explore what it means to be “anchored in love”. They unpack how preparation, resourcing and kindness can keep a “love ship” steady through change. They discuss identifying resilience strategies before you need them, discerning when to move versus be still, and remind us that being able to access our tools matters as much as the tools themselves.

• Anchoring in Love and Forgiveness
• Stress Responses and Resourcing
• What’s Shared and What’s Kept Sacred

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Let us know what you think through the social channels below, and please leave a review so that like-minded people can find us. 

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In this episode hosts Alexis and Sangodare explore the idea of the “dark night of the soul,” through poetry and a very literal dark-night story of their own. They offer three “North Stars” to help listeners return to love even through the darkness, and answer a listener question about a time they each had to “compost” habits and beliefs that did not serve their highest purpose.

• Navigating spiritual Darkness with grace
• Elks and Motel Madness
• Composting Limiting Beliefs and Behaviour

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Let us know what you think through the social channels below, and please leave a review so that like-minded people can find us. 

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Hosts Sangodare and Alexis reflect on time as a social construct and discuss their contrasting time styles. They share time keeping systems that have worked for them and illustrate how shared practices can align intentions, remembering that ultimately, love is always on time. A listener question prompts discussion of repetition, purpose, and consistent relationship practices. They close with announcing the next live taping on April 24th 2026 at North Star Church of the Arts in Durham, and Sunday School on April 26th

• Love Beyond Time
• How to approach differing relationships to to time
• We are what we Practice

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Let us know what you think through the social channels below, and please leave a review so that like-minded people can find us. 

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Hosts Sangodare and Alexis explore the idea of a “loveship” ad a relationship as spiritual practice. They urge listeners to treat purpose as the seed and root of love, contrasting “happily ever after” with “purposefully ever after,” and grounding the discussion in Audrey Lorde’s mantra, “I am who I am doing what I came to do.” They argue that purpose is an ongoing relationship with one’s aliveness that strengthens partner choice, collaboration, and boundaries across romantic and non-romantic connections. They close the episode with a listener Q&A.

• Purpose as the root of Relationship 
• Audre Lorde’s Purpose Mantra
• How Purpose Readies Partnership
• Finding Resonance in Love
• Practices to Notice the Miracle

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And because love is living with purpose, join us for our first Chrysalis Cohort! More info here: https://luma.com/chrysaliscohort1

Let us know what you think through the social channels below, and please leave a review so that like-minded people can find us. 

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In this live recorded episode, hosts Alexis and Sangodare welcome the audience into their playful, tangent-filled “living room”. This episode’s theme is loving the place you live: sharing why Durham supports their purpose, community circles, creativity, and wholeness despite concerns about change and cost. They offer three “North Stars” and answer a listener's question about staying present in overwhelming group spaces.

• Loving the Place You Live
• How Durham Found Us
• Community Circles and Purpose
• Listener Q and A

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For more on our coaching and community building offerings, Click Here
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And because love is living with purpose, join us for our first Chrysalis Cohort! More info here: https://luma.com/chrysaliscohort1

Let us know what you think through the social channels below, and please leave a review so that like-minded people can find us. 

RESOURCES 

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It's our half-birthday—our podcast's 6 month anniversary!

If you want to support this podcast and have access to monthly live sessions with us and other goodies, join us on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/posts/did-i-mention-we-159287534

For more on our coaching and community building offerings, Click Here
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And because love is living with purpose, join us for our first Chrysalis Cohort! More info here: https://luma.com/chrysaliscohort1