We start in love :

We are serious about loving

We are serious about sin

We are in this for real time -- that means spending time

We are called to trust in God

We are to rely on the Holy Spirit

We are to wait for His timing

We are only to share wisdom we know God is leading us into

We are humble

We realise that this is a two way street

We give and we make sure that we receive. (Remember the parable of the workers who came at different times)

We are ready to sacrifice

We are ready to hand over those to another persons when God leads us

See notes on 

https://toancientofdays.blogspot.com/2021/03/disciples-make-disciples-sermon-notes.html