Cup of Soul Podcast — Season 10, Episode 178 Settling for the Wrong Definitions

What if the reason we struggle to love well… is because we've been living from the wrong definition of love?

In this episode, Theresa and Candis open an honest and needed conversation about how culture, experiences, and comparison have shaped the way we understand love—often without us realizing it.

From friendships to family to our relationship with God, we can find ourselves calling things "love" that were never meant to define it.

Together, we unpack: • How comparison quietly distorts the way we love • Why we often define love based on what we've experienced • The difference between natural love and Spirit-led love • What it looks like to accept, encourage, and love without competing or trying to change people

Because the truth is— You cannot love people well while measuring yourself against them.

This episode creates space to pause and reflect: Who or what has been shaping your definition of love? And where might God be inviting you to see it differently?

Love isn't something we perform. It's something we receive… and then release.

✨ Next week: We go deeper into how to love in your hardest relationships—starting with The Taker.