We all know that couples are supposed to compromise to make decisions. But let's talk about a positive way and a negative way to do this. Settling and Acceptance are very similar ideas. But we all know that settling has a negative connotation to it and acceptance a positive one. But do you understand what the difference is and why one is positive and one is negative? Understanding the difference can help you to move from a position of having settled in some key areas of your life to a much better feeling by accepting your partner's needs and wishes and being able to honor your own.