Justin Sisemore, Mary Maloney, and Andrea Jones discuss settling divorces outside of court, emphasizing alternative dispute resolution methods like arbitration, mediation, informal settlement conferences, and Rule 11 agreements. Mediation, used 90-95% of the time, is a preferred method due to its efficiency and finality, with agreements being binding and irrevocable unless revoked by the court. Rule 11 agreements ensure agreements are enforceable and provide a paper trail. Informal settlement conferences can be conducted without attorneys but are generally advised to have legal representation. The importance of legal advice in navigating family law matters is highlighted, especially for complex cases involving significant assets or children.