Called and Caffeinated

Sex Life and Finding the Right NFP Method feat. Bridget Busacker


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I was super nervous before my wedding night about sex. I didn’t know how to go about finding the right NFP method, and approaching married people with personal questions was embarrassing. The whole deal felt kinda… gross. John and I were promised a “honeymoon every month” in our marriage prep class, but living the reality was extremely hard. We felt disillusioned and bitter. Anyone else out there?

This is THE exact convo I wish I’d heard in those times. I loved chatting with Bridget Busacker, the founder of Managing Your Fertility, in this share-all, no topics barred, totally honest episode. She details the three different types of NFP and how to know which one will work best for you. We don’t sugar-coat it: NFP is hard requires sacrifice. The conversation needs way more nuance than can fit in an Instagram post or pre-Cana retreat talk. But we also don’t skimp on sharing the depth of love, communication, joy, and intimacy that’s made possible.

I have a favor to ask: Can you please pass this on to a single friend who’d benefit from it? And would you mind taking 1 min to leave a rating and review on Apple Podcasts? Thank you!!

Topics Discussed

  • The three different types of NFP
  • How to know which method is best for you
  • Choosing an NFP instructor
  • Can you switch methods?
  • Getting past the weirdness of cervical mucus, cycles, sex, etc.
  • Ditching the “honeymoon every month” lie for an authentic, nuanced inside scoop on using NFP
  • Prioritizing and choosing your spouse on a daily basis
  • Achieving simultaneous orgasm- yup, we go there!
  • Resources

    • Managing Your Fertility, Bridget's website
  • Holy Sex! Book
  • Humanae Vitae by Pope St. John Paul the Great
  • Own Your Belovedness by Sarah Kroger
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