Sex, Love & Everything In Between

Hey lovers, welcome back to Sex, Love & Everything in Between! 

This week, Jacob O’Neill sits down with a powerhouse guest, Samson Odusanya, to dive deep into the themes of masculinity, pain, and what it truly means to create harmony in a world obsessed with control and balance.

Jacob kicks off with a heartfelt intro about how he connected with Samson through mutual friends and was blown away by his depth, presence, and the way Samson weaves truth into everything he shares. Together, they explore how modern society’s obsession with quick fixes and control often disconnects us from the natural flow of life—and how true harmony is about embracing change and flowing with the seasons of life.

They riff off on:

•The importance of voluntary discomfort and leaning into challenges as a way to grow as men.

•Samson’s powerful perspective on harmony vs. balance and how the latter is an illusion.

•Jacob’s emotional story of family, legacy, and the strength of the women in his lineage, beautifully illustrating the power of love and resilience through death and rebirth.

•How pain, both physical and emotional, is a necessary part of life’s initiation process, especially for men on their path to becoming fathers, husbands, and leaders.

This episode is a raw, vulnerable, and transformative conversation that will resonate with anyone looking to deepen their connection to themselves, their family, and the world around them.

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In today’s episode, Meg and Jacob O'Neill dive into the ultimate rite of passage: preparing for the birth of their first child.

As Meg approaches 38 weeks, they reflect on the emotional and physical journey of pregnancy and the intensity of the birth process. This isn't just a logistical challenge—it's a deep, spiritual initiation that’s asking both of them to surrender to the unknown. With Jacob humorously navigating the "holy grail" of nursing chairs and Meg embodying trust in her body’s wisdom, they explore what it really means to meet this moment with presence, humor, and raw authenticity.

They riff off on:

• The surreal experience of waiting for their lives to change, with no fixed schedule for when the baby will arrive.
• Meg's powerful intention not to manifest a "perfect" birth, but to fully surrender to whatever comes.
• The deep trust they’ve developed with their birth keeper, Leslie, and how she nourishes Meg in ways she never knew she needed.
• The unexpected healing that’s emerging for both of them, especially Jacob as he reflects on the masculine role in the birth process.

and many more...

If you're ready to hear the real, unfiltered truth about birth, surrender, and embracing every aspect of this intense rite of passage, this episode is for you.

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What does it take for a man to balance fatherhood, community leadership, and integrity?

In this episode of Sex, Love & Everything in Between, Jacob O’Neill sits down with Ryan Hubbards, founder of Cool to be Conscious, to explore the challenges of becoming a dad and leading a cultural movement. From the emotional growth required for fatherhood to the importance of grounding in modern men’s work, this episode dives deep into what it means to live with integrity.

They riff off on:

• Jacob introduces Ryan Hubbards and discusses the movement’s cultural significance and integrity.

•Ryan reflects on vulnerability and loneliness in personal development.

•Jacob and Ryan explore challenges in balancing family with leadership.

•Jacob shares the importance of creating harmony at home.

•Jacob and Ryan discuss personal growth through fatherhood.

•The significance of a supportive brotherhood and community leadership.

•The importance of building a relationship with nature for personal development.

•Balancing leadership with maintaining personal integrity.

•Addressing sexual energy and boundaries in community settings.

•Jacob and Ryan discuss the importance of vulnerability and commitment in relationships.

And many, many more...

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This week, we're diving headfirst into the heart of what makes intimacy tick—not just the close quarters but the deep, electrifying presence that makes every moment resonate.

As Meg and Jacob juggle the excitement of a "Baby O'Neill Barbecue" and the everyday hilarity of their lives (like debating the etiquette of drying camping gear on the front lawn), Meg and Jacob unravel the layers of what true connection means. It's not just about physical closeness but about feeling your partner's presence so intensely that nothing else matters.

Meg opens up about craving Jacob's undivided attention—his presence so potent, it's like being touched without a single finger laid. Jacob brings his characteristic warmth and wit as he greets you, the listeners, pulling you into their vibrant, unfiltered world where sex, love, and the spaces in between are discussed with no reservations.

They also riff off on:

• Meg expresses a deep desire for Jacob’s presence, not just physical closeness, emphasizing the need for depth in their interactions.
• They discuss the balance between traditional roles and maintaining individuality, particularly as they prepare for their new baby.
• The couple shares light-hearted moments about drying camping gear and being perceived as "gypsies" by neighbors.
• They talk about the challenges of maintaining intimacy during daily routines and the impact of distractions like technology.
• Jacob and Meg prefers the term 'Baby O'Neill Barbecue' than baby shower.
• Both discuss the importance of the quality rather than the quantity of presence in their relationship, emphasizing deep connection.
• They explore the necessity for personal space and growth, especially Jacob’s perspective on men needing time away for personal development.
• Both stress the importance of communication in managing expectations and desires within the relationship, particularly around time spent together.

And many more...

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Buckle up because this episode is one hell of a ride. Meg and Jacob O’Neill are pulling back the curtain on their most intimate, raw, and downright hilarious moments as they dive into what it really means to be an Erotic Mother. Spoiler alert: it’s not all soft whispers and sweet kisses—sometimes it’s about wanting to be treated like a “dirty little whore” (yep, she said it), even when there’s a baby on board.

This conversation is for every woman who’s ever felt the pull between her wild erotic self and the nurturing mother inside her, and for every couple trying to keep the spark alive amidst the chaos of daily life.

So, if you’re ready for some real talk, a few belly laughs, and a powerful reminder that you can be all of it—the nurturer, the lover, the wild woman—this episode is for you.

They also riff off on:

• Meg admits to loving being dominated and being treated as a "dirty, little whore"
• Meg emphasizes the importance of presence and the need for space to reconnect, suggesting that they need to create a container for intimacy.
• Jacob reflects on the power of getting out of their regular environment to reset their connection and the importance of being present without distractions.
• Meg suggests the idea of a lockbox to store their phones during intimate moments, which Jacob finds intriguing but impractical.
• Meg and Jacob explore the societal pressure of fitting into the "homemaker-whore" complex, where women are expected to be either a homemaker or a whore.
• Jacob shares his realization that removing distractions and creating a safe environment is crucial for intimacy to flourish.

and many more.

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In this episode, Jacob O'Neill is joined by Allan McGrath, an intimacy mentor who’s been guiding men and women toward deeper connections for over a decade. Allan reveals the power of sexual energy, not just as a physical act, but as a pathway to higher purpose and profound personal transformation.

Together, they explore the art of polarity in relationships, the magnetic dance between masculine and feminine energies, and how couples can harness this dynamic to enhance their intimacy. Allan also shares his unique approach to helping women embrace their feminine essence through sexual yoga and the teachings of sacred intimacy.
 
 They also riff off on:

• Alan McGraw helps people deepen their connections by understanding sexual polarity. 
• Jacob O'Neill explains how balancing different aspects of ourselves can enhance intimacy in relationships. 
• Jacob reflects on balancing masculine and feminine energies for growth. 
• Jacob and Allan discuss using polarity and tantra for healing. 
• Jacob shares a moment of feeling overwhelmed by his wife’s love, illustrating deep connection. 
• Jacob talks about using sex for transformation and liberation. 
• Jacob reflects on prioritizing his partner’s pleasure and managing ejaculation.
• Jacob discusses managing ejaculation and its impact on energy. 
• Jacob and Allan emphasize the importance of self-awareness in men’s work and intimacy. 

and many more.

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Meg O'Neill sits down with the incredible Angel Drake, who’s just weeks away from giving birth, for a deeply personal conversation that touches on everything from pregnancy surprises to the raw emotions of womanhood. Angel, Founder and CEO of The Somatic Healing Institute, shares her journey through pregnancy, she talks about the physical and emotional highs and lows, offering a real, unfiltered look at what it means to carry life.

They explore the profound power of being a woman, especially when it comes to embracing our authentic selves. Forget the pressure to be the "good girl"—Meg and Angel discuss how truly freeing it is to let go of society’s expectations and fully embody who we are. They also share the transformative experience of rage rituals, where women can safely express their deepest emotions and find healing.

This episode is filled with wisdom on healing from the past, embracing embodiment, and seeing birth as a spiritual journey.

They also riff off on:

• Meg and Angel share the unexpected joy and fun of not knowing their baby’s gender until birth. Turns out, the surprise adds a lot of excitement and a few good laughs.
• Meg talks about the not-so-glamorous side of pregnancy, including the infamous "lightning crotch," bringing humor to the real challenges of carrying a child.
• Meg and Angel discuss the power of rage rituals where women can safely express their deepest frustrations. It’s cathartic and might just be the key to emotional freedom.
• They break down the pressure on women to always be "good girls," encouraging listeners to embrace their true, messy, and authentic selves instead.
• Angel shares her journey of fully inhabiting her body and shedding the weight of societal norms because who has time to be anyone but themselves?
• Meg and Angel discuss how true intimacy is about staying curious and connected with your partner, even when life gets messy and complicated.
• Both women share funny and relatable moments about pregnancy brain, proving that growing a human can lead to the most amusing experiences.
• hey tackle the tricky topic of polarity, advocating for a better understanding of masculine and feminine energies in relationships because it’s not as simple as it sounds.
• Meg and Angel explore the deep work of healing past trauma, showing that inner work is essential for truly fulfilling relationships.
• They both have a beautiful discussion on birth as a sacred ceremony and the importance of surrendering to the experience, making it a spiritual journey.

and many more.

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In this episode, Meg and Jacob O’Neill share their real struggles with anger, emotions, and diving deep into the messy, beautiful reality of love and intimacy.

Meg opens up about how women often hold in anger, leading to bottled-up feelings and frustration. She and Jacob discuss their different ways of handling anger and how it shapes their relationship. It’s a powerful reminder that communication is a key driver to deeper intimacy and more meaningful connection with your partner.

Imagine the magic of connecting face-to-face. Meg describes hosting an in-person event as “glorious” and “life-changing.” These gatherings create deep bonds and healing, especially for women seeking more in their relationships. Jacob reflects on the healing power of coming together especially when healing core parts of you and doing "inner work" in the support of a community.

They stress the need for honesty, vulnerability, and focusing on women’s empowerment in relationships. Meg talks about how relaxing and letting go are key to feeling deep pleasure and connection. She encourages you to create a “blueprint” in your body for this feeling.

They also riff off on: 

• Meg O'Neill discusses how women often internalize anger and frustration in relationships.
• Internalized anger leads to the suppression of emotions and a lack of expression.
• Jacob O'Neill reflects on the power of coming together for healing and growth.
• Meg and Jacob talks about how the most powerful healing occurs in subtle moments rather than loud or intense releases.
• Meg O'Neill shares the importance of expressing hurt in a safe space for women.
• Meg and Jacob discuss the importance of clearing emotional baggage for personal growth and liberation.
• Meg O'Neill encourages women to create a blueprint of their immersive experiences to recall and practice later.
• Trust and support are crucial in creating meaningful experiences.
• Relaxation and letting go are keys to feeling deep pleasure and connection.
• The importance of balancing online work with in-person interactions to enhance the depth of connections.
• Highlighting the ceremonial nature of gatherings designed to deepen understanding and connection among participants.

and many, many more.

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How do our energetic cycles and unresolved resentment affect our relationships?

Join host Jacob O'Neill and special guest, Velan Cadden, as they dive into the complexities of resentment in relationships and its impact on men's energetic bodies. In this profound episode, Jacob and Velan explore themes of cultural change, personal growth, and the subtle rhythms that govern our connections.

Velan focuses on men's development and relationships. He shares his unique insights into managing emotions, tracking subtle signals in the body, and avoiding conflicts. Velan’s work emphasizes the importance of awareness, vulnerability, and the somatic practices that help men navigate their internal and external challenges.

Discover how awareness and choice can help manage emotions and avoid conflicts, and learn about the significance of attuning to deeper layers of vulnerability in relationships and organizations.

This episode also delves into understanding women's cycles and their impact on relationships, the importance of creative expression, and the inner work required for true intimacy. 

They also riff off on:

• Jacob and Velan discusses relationship to beast, both internal and external, and importance of tracking subtle signals in body to avoid rage and conflict.
• Jacob explores the importance of consciously cultivating the "beast" in men for deeper intimacy and fulfillment.
• They share insights on recognizing and healing deeper emotional patterns through self-awareness and empathy.
• Jacob shares his experience of deepening his awareness and vulnerability in his relationship, which has allowed him to connect with others on a deeper level.
• Jacob reflects on the importance of slowing down and connecting with oneself, citing the benefits of feeling life's texture rather than just reacting to external stimuli.
• Understanding woman's cycle can reveal aspects of man's own rhythm and energy.
• Finding relief from sexual energy through creative expression, movement, and nature.

and many more...

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Ever felt clumsy in bed? You’re not alone.

Join Meg and Jacob O’Neill as they dive into the messy, beautiful reality of long-term relationships and intimacy. They explore how those awkward, clunky sex moments are completely normal and can actually lead to a deeper connection.

In this episode, they talk openly about their struggles, desires, and how personal growth in sex can bring you closer. They emphasize the importance of quality time together, reflecting on a day filled with connection, exploring each other’s bodies during pregnancy, and the impact of small, meaningful moments.

Meg and Jacob also tackle the tough stuff: frustration, hurt feelings, and finding ways to reconnect. They share how staying curious, addressing emotions, and embracing the messiness of intimacy can transform your relationship.

They also riff off on:

• How much Jacob and Meg loves high quality food -- and Buchi Kombucha
• Meg shares personal stories of clunky sex experiences in long term relationships.
• Meg and Jacob encounters a clunky moment during sex leading to an open conversation after
• Meg and Jacob shares juicy details about trying 69, with Meg preferring deep receptivity and Jacob liking the intertwined mess of giving and receiving.
• Meg emphasizes the importance of investing time and energy into improving one's sex life, rather than accepting it as static and unchanging.
• Honoring clunky sex moments can lead to more animalistic, wild quickies for women.
• Jacob and Meg discusses surface-level vs. deep pleasure in sex and masturbation.

and many more.

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