“Likewise, “just don’t do it” talks or suggesting sex is only happening in marriages presents its own problems – mostly, it’s a lie and leaves them underprepared.

And that’s before we even consider how women and LGBTQ+ individual’s experiences are overshadowed or ignored by most sex-ed programs, leaving them to seek answers from media and peers.” “I spoke with Melissa Carnagey, LBSW, founder of Sex Positive Families, an organization that provides education and support to help families raise sexually healthy children at every age and stage. She says, “Sexuality is an integral part of being human” that is with us and “shapes how we relate to ourselves, others, and the world around us.”

She defines a sex-positive home culture as an environment where parents commit to open and ongoing conversations about sexuality, sex, and their bodies to make sure their children feel informed and supported.

It means eliminating shame, so our children feel safe to come to us with everything, even the hard stuff. And while all children need love and support to thrive, our kids – who are often treated differently than non-Black kids – can find particular benefit in a shame-free home with open communication.

“It’s important that Black youth have the opportunity to understand and connect with their bodies because in that connection is power and an understanding of their inherent worthiness. This understanding, coupled with unwavering support at home, makes youth less vulnerable to self-harm or influences that may not have their best interest in mind,” Carnagey explains.”

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