The degree of difference between what wordplay stimulation will do to a woman’s sexual arousal and a man’s couldn’t be more stark. While men enjoy a marginal increase in pleasure listening to a woman moan and talk dirty during sex, women become absolutely apoplectic with lust when you describe the sexual tension in explicit detail. You can literally make a woman’s neck hair stand on end by telling her what you are about to do to her.

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the Big Three:

1. Squirting orgasms. This is the holy grail.

2. Regular orgasms. the majority of women don’t experience them with their men.

3. Sex Talk.