Recorded in Macon, GA. Coby [she/her] has lived several lives in one. Growing up queer in the South meant cross-dressing on the regular just to feel like herself — and that was just the beginning. She opens up about her transition journey, what she's contemplating next, the devastating loss of her mother, and the surprisingly fascinating world of life as a truck driver. Fair warning: you never quite know where Coby is going to take you next — and that's exactly what makes this one of those conversations you don't forget.

Topics: transgender identity, queer life in the South, gender transition, grief and loss, trans women, gender non-conforming identity.

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Chatting in Decatur, GA. Lilith [she/her] was 18 when she was sex trafficked. What followed was a decade of working as a prostitute — a world most of us only hear about secondhand. She walks us through how that world actually operated, the terrifying moments she had to survive, and what a decade of that life did to her sense of self, safety, and relationships. This one isn't easy listening — but it is necessary. Her honesty is extraordinary.

Topics: sex trafficking, survival sex work, prostitution, trauma, sexual exploitation, healing, resilience, identity after trauma.

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Chatting in Richmond, VA. Goddess B [she/her] discovered that her husband slut boi [he/him] had been secretly seeing professional Dominatrixes behind her back. What happened next is not what you'd expect. Instead of the relationship ending, Goddess B made the extraordinary choice to try to understand his world — and that decision cracked open a whole new universe for both of them. A story about deception, vulnerability, and what can happen when someone chooses curiosity over anger.

Topics: BDSM, kink, Dominatrix, relationship secrets, sexual disclosure, power exchange, kink discovery, marriage and sexuality.

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Recorded at Burning Man, Black Rock Desert, NV. This episode is unlike any other. Riley DJed a live set on KAEZ — a solar-powered radio station — and pulled strangers off the playa to talk about sex on the spot. Kim, Tiger, Cheyenne, and Reptile Dysfunction (yes, really) came through to share Burning Man sex stories, candid takes on erectile dysfunction, and the kind of raw honesty that only seems to happen in the desert. Absolutely one of a kind.

Thank you Alternative Energy Zone for a wonderful experience getting to DJ for the first time, I cant wait to do it again!

Topics: Burning Man, festival culture, erectile dysfunction, spontaneous sex conversations, radical self-expression, sexual openness, alternative communities.

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Recorded in Tempe, AZ. Lynn [she/her] and Gabriel [he/him] have been together for over three decades. They raised three kids, made it through the hard years, and when the nest finally emptied — they opened their relationship. They talk about how they've made non-monogamy work after a lifetime of traditional partnership, what it was like to share a girlfriend together, and how they've kept a 30-year relationship not just alive but genuinely exciting. One of the most hopeful conversations about long-term love you'll hear.

Topics: non-monogamy, open relationships, long-term relationships, polyamory, empty nesting, ethical non-monogamy, couples dating together, relationship evolution.

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Recorded in Gilbert, AZ. Buddy [he/him] has been living the non-monogamous lifestyle for years — and he has the stories to prove it. But beneath the entertaining group sex anecdotes is something more complex: a man who witnessed serious childhood trauma and has spent years understanding how that shaped the way he loves and connects with people. This conversation moves between funny and heavy, explicit and introspective, in the way only the best of these conversations do.

Topics: non-monogamy, group sex, childhood trauma and relationships, swinging, polyamory, healing through sexuality, relationship psychology.

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Recorded in Glendale, AZ. CC [they/she] is 23 years old and has already done more identity excavation than most people do in a lifetime. Growing up in a Mormon family while being queer meant learning very early how to hide. The military became their unlikely escape route — trading one kind of structure for another, but gaining a freedom they'd never had before. They also get into what it's like to be queer in a queer family, and their experiences with older partners. Thoughtful, funny, and genuinely fascinating.

Topics: Mormon deconstruction, queer identity, military life, religious trauma, queerness and family, age gap relationships, non-binary identity, coming out.

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Recorded in Mesa, AZ. Ethan [he/him] grew up bisexual in Missouri — which is its own kind of adventure — and somewhere along the way also became an atheist and Satanist, which has a real impact on who he dates and how he approaches relationships. And then there's the chapter where he genuinely believed he was a trans woman. He talks through all of it with openness and self-awareness that makes this a fascinating listen, whatever your own background looks like.

Topics: bisexuality, Satanism, atheism, gender identity exploration, religion and sexuality, Midwest queer experience, identity and dating.

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Recorded in Phoenix, AZ. Chaos Keeper [he/him] is a chaos magician — and yes, that absolutely comes up. Fresh off a flash-pan marriage that burned bright and fast, he opens up about loving that intensely and coming out the other side. He goes deep into his experiences with sex magic, drug-induced intimacy, and his deliberately sexless polyamorous relationship — and the very intentional reasons behind that choice. One of the more philosophically wild conversations on the show.

Topics: chaos magic, sex magic, polyamory, sexless relationships by choice, psychedelics and sex, alternative spirituality and sexuality, flash marriage.

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Recorded in Chico, CA. Stormy [she/her] is at a turning point. She's finally walking away from a decade-long relationship with a woman — one with no sex in it — and she's ready to start actually living. But to understand where she's going, you need to hear where she's been: losing a baby young, getting emancipated at 16 to marry a man twice her age, and building coping mechanisms just to survive relentless hardship. After trauma stacked on trauma since her teens, she is done surviving. This conversation captures that moment beautifully.

Topics: sexless relationships, lesbian relationships, teen marriage, trauma and survival, healing, coping mechanisms, leaving bad relationships, starting over.

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