What do sexless relationships, cheating, and wedding party drama have in common? Apparently, more than you'd think.

In this episode, I unpack why so many of us have been with the same man — not literally, but emotionally. The type who doesn’t touch us, doesn’t see us, and somehow still makes us feel like we’re asking for too much. I talk about the deep importance of sexual compatibility, the shame we carry when it’s missing, and the guilt that shows up when we seek it elsewhere — even though we shouldn’t feel guilty at all.

Then we shift to weddings: specifically, why it makes zero sense to be hyper-picky about your venue, photographer, and table runners… but not your bridesmaids. If someone doesn’t clap for your love loudly and proudly, they don’t deserve a dress. Period.

This one might hurt a little. Which means it’s probably the truth.

Unfaithfully yours,

B.