Sex.Love.Power.: Sacred Sexuality, Conscious Polarity, and Waking Up In Love

This is an exclusive preview of my limited private podcast series: Elevate Your Marriage to Great! This podcast series is for you if you're an ambitious, growth-oriented woman who is tired of not receiving the passion, partnership, and potency you know is possible in your long-term relationship.

If you loved this episode and want to hear more, you can get the full series for free at ourlegacylove.com/elevate

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You're brilliant. You're accomplished. But you're frustrated.

In the first episode of this limited series, I solve a mystery that troubles powerful women like you: "I'm such a skilled creator and problem solver in other areas of my life: work, home, fitness... Why is my marriage the one place I can't make any headway?" There is nothing wrong with you if you have this question. You're not broken or bad for feeling or thinking it. AND there is so much power available to you when you recognize the root of your frustrations.

Today, I'll reveal the five key reasons why you're struggling to achieve deep intimacy and satisfying relationships with men.

These are the answers I wish I could have given myself 20 years ago. As you listen, I hope you’ll feel seen and understood in a way you haven’t before.

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“The day that you wake up, and you realize that you have been had, and the person you’re sleeping with is not the person you fell in love with, that’s the first day of your real marriage.” - James Framo.

In this episode, my husband and I walk you through our journey through the four stages of relationship. Whether you're wondering why marriage is so hard or seeking ways to reignite the passion, join us as we delve into the intricacies of navigating these stages and finding grace in each one.

In this episode, you’ll hear about:

• How Kurt and I navigated the four stages of relationships
• Strategies we've used to navigate challenges and conflicts in our 27-year marriage.
• The three components of fostering intimacy and connection beyond the reckoning
• Our experience with embracing imperfections and growing together as individuals and as a couple
• The iterative process of facing yourself and your relationship with honesty and authenticity every day

And more.

“Marriage is a crucible that turns you into who you were meant to be... It's like a rock tumbler making gems beautiful, banging off the rough edges.”

RESOURCES OR LINKS MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE:

Embracing Pain + Beauty with Special Guest Myra Sack

The Five Winning Relationship Strategies episode

The Five Losing Relationship Strategies episode

How to Stay, When to Go episode

100-Year Marriage episode

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Today, I'm so grateful to share with you a profoundly moving conversation with Myra Sack, a woman who embodies the essence of resilience and intimacy with life.

In her newly released book,57 Fridays: Losing Our Daughter, Finding Our Way, Myra brings us into the intimate journey through the immense grief of losing her daughter, Havi, to Tay-Sachs disease. I wanted to bring Myra onto the show to explore the delicate balance between the most painful and beautiful moments of our lives.

It's a must-listen for anyone seeking to face their pain and find a source of profound connection and authenticity.

In this episode, you’ll hear about:

• Myra's practice of "Shabbirthdays" and the power of ritual
• How to face and embrace fear to avoid being paralyzed by it
• The importance of emotional granularity
• The role of self-awareness and self-trust in developing psychological resilience
• How to foster community support during times of profound personal crisis.

And more.

“We are so afraid to turn towards the deepest, most painful, real reality that we miss the opportunity to experience the deepest joy and the fullest love”

Get your copy of 57 Fridays: Losing Our Daughter, Finding Our Way

Learn about E-Motion, the non-profit Myra founded to “support community, movement and ritual to enhance coping and resilience”

Follow Myra on Instagram @myrasack

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I want to go deep with you today about something that's been coming up a lot in my life and work: what it means to embrace our power and pleasure as women. For the longest time, I used to feel guilty for wanting more, for desiring abundance and joy in my life.

But, after many years of being stifled under my feelings of shame, I realized something. And now, I'm here to share that revelation with you, to show you a different way to navigate this world as a woman.

In this episode, you’ll hear about:

• Why viewing yourself as a woman built to receive can transform your relationships and your life.
• The liberating truth I’m learning about seeking approval from others (or pissing them off!)
• How your deepest desires can serve as divine guidance
• The transformative power of embracing self-care
• How cultivating abundance within yourself can enrich the lives of those around you.

And more.

“There's no limit to how expansive your life can be. There's no way in which your expansion takes away from anyone else. You grew it. If you're doing it from your own honesty, your own love, you're not hijacking anyone else to take what's rightfully theirs. You're in fact growing what's yours. And as you do that, you have a right to absolutely anything you can imagine opening your receptivity to. ”-Michele Christensen

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So often, we find ourselves stuck in the same old patterns, grappling with conflicts or feeling disconnected. We try workshops, therapy, self-help books, but somehow, things just don't stick.

After today's episode, you'll understand why and what steps to take next. Through working in this way, I've seen couples completely turn things around in as little as three days, or a couple of focused weeks. So today I'm going to show you how best to use your precious energy.

In this episode, you’ll hear about:

• What doesn't work in getting help for your relationship.
• The three things that really do make the biggest difference.
• The framework that’s been tremendously helpful in my marriage and my clients’
• Why this method works way better for men than the other approaches I’ve tried

And more.

“The reason we've been doing things the way we've been doing them is because of the patterns we brought into the relationship. We have deep devotion to repeating our patterns because at some point those patterns were survival level necessary” -Michele Christensen

Learn more about Terry Real at Terry Real - Relational Life Therapy.

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I was so grateful to sit down and record with my teacher, Eric Klein, the founder ofWisdom Heart along with his wife, Devi. I wanted you to hear from him what he's teaching me about my body, mind, spirit, and the way that those interact with the experiences I have in my marriage, my earning, my business -- pretty much in every area of my life.

I am thrilled for you all to hear Eric talk with us about some of the ways that you can apply planetary astrology, the chakras, meditation, and the spiritual path in general to evolve more of what you want in love and life.

In this episode, you’ll hear about:

• Both of our journeys with Kriya Yoga
• The power of practice and why it resonates with me and so many other women
• The connection between planetary astrology and our inner chakras
• Our definition of intimacy and how it can show us our greatest teachers

And more.

“Intimacy is another word for awakening because it's really reducing the layers of self protection in order to become more and more connected to life. The most potent aspects of life come to us as human beings.” -Eric Klein

Learn more and connect with Eric at wisdomheart.com or @wisdom.heart on Instagram!

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So many women come to me wanting to turn up their libidos and experience more and better orgasms. I start by asking them 11 questions that, on the surface, don’t seem directly related to erotic desire. But the answers that women give me tell me a ton about their relationships with themselves, their turn-on, their bodies, their sensations, and with their capacity to contain embodied experiences, both desired experiences and not desired experiences.

In this episode, I'm going to ask you those same 11 questions that tell me whether or not you are in a robust, joyful relationship with your own desires, receptivity, and pleasure. You’ll hear about:

• Why I ask each of these questions and the common answers I hear from clients
• Why and how these libido killers affect women specifically
• How to cultivate a desire in ways that have nothing to do with your partner
• Simple practices you can add to your day to experience more turn-on throughout your life

And more.

“Our capacity for pleasant sensations is always conscribed by our capacity for unpleasant, unwanted sensations, the things we fear, the things we're angry about, the things that we have grief about.”
-Michele Christensen

Hot Moments in This Episode:

• How you wake up matters [10:20]
• A note about dressing sexy [16:05]
• Why you need to put on your own oxygen mask first [25:36]
• What your inner pleasure goddess wants for you [31:15]

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The term “gaslighting” has become a buzzword in recent years and, because of its widespread use, the meaning of this term has become a bit murky. Today, I want to talk about what I call “gaslighting lite” or the ways that understanding the gaslight effect can help you navigate when gaslighting behaviors show up in your otherwise healthy relationship.

In this episode, you’ll learn:

• Common areas in which many, many people gaslight our partners or other people in our lives
• Why gaslighting shows up in otherwise healthy relationships
• How you may be unconsciously participating in this pattern
• How you can extricate yourself from this painful cycle, whichever side of it you are on

And more.

“Subconscious parts of us react in a knee-jerk fashion that might be out of character for us, might almost be like a different person's behavior, and that subconscious part does that in order to protect the blind spot.”
-Michele Christensen

Hot Moments in This Episode:

• How I’ve participated in “gaslighting lite” and how I intervened [13:48]
• The way you or your partner is acting like a 15-year-old [16:28]
• What can happen when you start calling out these behaviors [17:52]

RESOURCES OR LINKS MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE:

We Can Do Hard Things Podcast: Are You Being Gaslighted?

The Gaslight Effect by Dr. Robin Stern

The Gaslight Effect Recovery Guide by Dr. Robin Stern

What is DARVO? by Dr. Jennifer J. Freyd

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You may have heard the term “patriarchy” used to describe a social and political construct, but, as my mentor, Terry Real, explains, it is also a psychological notion. How can we recognize when psychological patriarchy is at play and what can we do to counteract it?

In this episode, I’ll discuss:

• How our sense of ourselves as humans has been artificially bifurcated into masculine and feminine traits
• Why masculine traits are overvalued and feminine traits are undervalued.
• The painful consequences of psychological patriarchy.
• How Legacy Love takes couples through five levels of recovery.

And more.

“We can't build deeper, sweeter relationships than we've had, than our parents have had, than all the ones we've seen around us without dismantling some of the structures that have been invisible to us, that have stopped us from having true partnership, true equality, true intimacy.”
-Michele Christensen

Hot Moments in This Episode:

• Terry Real’s three rings of psychological patriarchy [1:52]
• Why I tackle psychological patriarchy with couples coaching clients [11:21]
• The highest level of Legacy Love I’ve discovered [22:36]

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Kurt and I have been married for almost 23 years and we're planning on another 50 to 75 together. We think, in terms of taking care of our bodies, minds and spirits and given the way technology is going, we could each live to be well over a hundred which gives us an amazingly long time to grow in love together and to contribute in so many other parts of our lives. Today's episode is about how we think about what I call, for shorthand “The 100-Year Marriage” and how you could think about it too.

In this episode, we’ll cover:

• Why you should think about the long-term plan for your relationship
• The areas of your life you should consider as you look at the next 50 or 75 years
• Questions you can ask yourself and each other to help define your vision for long lives together
• Resources that have helped expand my thinking about longevity and legacy

And more.

“You get to have any marriage, you're up for creating.”
-Michele Christensen

Hot Moments in This Episode:

• How to plan for retirement... or not. (11:30)
• The books that changed my outlook on life (13:40)
• How you are living as if your relationship doesn’t matter (27:46)

RESOURCES OR LINKS MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE:

• My Plan for Living to 156
• Cash Flow(game) by Robert Kiyosaki
• The 100 Year Life by Lynda Gratton & Andrew J. Scott
• Four Thousand Weeks by Oliver Burkeman
• Outlive by Peter Attia
• Lifespan by David A. Sinclair & Matthew D. LaPlante
• Built to Move by Kelly Starret

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