Too many people expect sex to be easy, just like it is in the movies. But that expectation leads to pressure, frustration, and disillusionment with others. God, on the other hand, expects sex to be the result of a process of love and respect. Paul’s classic words to husbands are wives aren’t mainly about sex, but they are the key to true intimacy. Love like Christ. Respect like the Church. That’s where love grows. “One flesh” love included.