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In this episode of Corks, Cocktails & Chemistry, ChaFai introduces Sextimacy and goes deeper into conversation about why sex can be passionate and exciting, yet still leave you feeling disconnected afterward.

Through a trauma-aware, science-grounded lens, this episode explores the difference between arousal and attachment, unpacking dopamine vs. oxytocin, and how early conditioning can shape the belief that sex equals love.

You’ll learn:

• Why great sex doesn’t always create connection
• How chemistry can excite without bonding
• How to practice intimacy with intention — even if you’re single

Paired with a Velvet Old Fashioned and a slow, intentional ash, this episode invites you to slow down and redefine what real closeness feels like.

Emotional Safety Note

This episode includes personal reflection and discussions around intimacy and early conditioning. Please listen at your own pace, take breaks if needed, and prioritize your emotional well-being.