Esther Perel's Questions for Exploration:

What is erotic for you? 

What is an erotic experience you had that was not sexual? When do you feel most free?

Do you prefer hot or cold water and where on your body do you like to feel it?

Do you prefer giving or receiving? Why?

What sense guides your erotic experiences the most? Visual, auditory, tactile, etc.?

What parts of yourself do you connect with in sex? The rebel? The caregiver? The dominant? The submissive?

Where do you go in sex? A place of abandon? To feel safely powerful? To transcend? To commune? A place where you can be mischievous?