It is not uncommon (at some point in the marriage) for a husband or wife to make excuses not to sleep with their spouse. It can be painful to a any of the parties in the marriage, so it’s important to understand why this happens. There are many reasons. Sex is more than a biological or physical release; it is emotional. Spiritual. It is ultimately about connecting on a deep level. This is the reason sex is so powerful.  When this connection is disrupted, it affects physical intimacy. Couples have divorced over sex and this has affected families and following generations.  Because your sex life is important, let’s explore this delicate topic.