Chet (35 he/they straight-ish kitchen table poly Indian-American) comes on to share how his rebellion against shame led him to become a surrogate partner therapist and workshop facilitator who teaches clients how to build intimacy.

They talk about the importance of fun and play when working with clients, the different styles of sexual surrogacy, early group play experiences, using music to support connection, how curating experiences for friends turned into hosting play parties and how those skills translate into facilitating squirting workshops.

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262 | Sexual Surrogacy & Squirting: Chet’s Stories

How do we connect? What makes a mutually satisfying relationship? What are other people into? This is not erotica—these are real human stories. Guests share details of their personal lives and/or work to add emotional context to the confusing experience of attempting to relate to other human beings. The goal? To learn from and more deeply understand one another through exchanges of personal wisdom and experience. The focus is always connection and intimacy in our modern world: relationships, dating, friendship, cultural “norms” and taboos. Conversations explore vulnerability, shame, desire, pleasure, celebration, creative bucket lists, fantasy play spaces, irresistible invitations and so much more. Listen and share to co-create the story-based, connection-first sex ed we never got­—but will all definitely benefit from.
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Original title: “Sex Stories” (Dec 2018-Jan 2024).

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Sadlibrarions, disappointment, love stories, how to open up and share ourselves, how Kimberly stays calm when Wyoh loses her shit, and wondering about stuff out loud together! Games, collages, spicy fantasy reads—and very spicy ramen noodles!

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Just Noodling: A Friendship, Disappointment & Spicy Noodle Experiment

Carly (38 bisexual monogam-ish cis f in a 5 year hetero relationship) shares how her love of erotica and desire to read “smarter porn” led her to create Aurore, a digital space for hot confessional stories.

She shares how turned on she gets edging herself in relationships that include cat-and-mouse games of desire, and talks about how (extremely!) intimately interviewing strangers abroad led to journaling that led to Aurore, and how helping people “name their shame” and connect with others and themselves can extend pleasure—and can maybe even surpass physical experiences of interpersonal play. Carly also shares why she LOVES marks and bruises, details of a special kissing-and-punching friendship in college, what she adores most about riding on top, and how committed relationships have the potential create a space of mutual trust that allows for more fun and freaky kinky exploration.



262 | Sexual Surrogacy & Squirting: Chet’s Stories

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