This is Part Two of the conversation we featured last week.

As with Part One, this conversation will seem very abstract when viewed from a “me-based” personality. Now, I don’t want to isolate anyone. I am usually a profoundly practical gal, very focused on teaching you how to get to peace in this one present moment, when most of us have a very large amount of mind, fear, and need obscuring our peace.

However, there is a time and place to throw out the very big guns. Both of us in this conversation have directly been to this territory. We are some of the very few real guides at this level of reality. Which means, we are not speaking from interpretations or imprints or a momentary glimpse, or a theoretical interpretation of reality. We are sharing our very direct experience. Both of us have very little (zero) spiritual background; we came to know reality suddenly, without preparation, and directly. And what the heck! It’s 2017, so you might as well hear from the real guides about what you can expect as transformation blooms for you.

Want some direct contact for yourself? Then you might start by clearing away the fear. Join us in class!

It’s so fascinating to notice how different life is after a genuine recognition of our True Nature.

All of us spend a majority of our early lives lived through the interpretations of our mind. Our minds are largely fear-based, and have very distinct filters that block true clarity. Some of us get a glimpse of the vast life-force and clarity that is here aside from the mind. And some of us come face to face with the true nature of reality, and get a big shock about how different reality is. Most of our language and thoughts are fueled by fear. We are innocent in this because we have been conditioned from infants to think and talk and act from fear. For many of us, we are aware enough to know it hurts: life feels hard, life is a struggle. But it feels like that is true about life, without being aware that it’s only true about conditioning—which is to say, the filters of your mind.

The great news is that we can drop conditioning. I don’t believe you need an awakening into true nature to do this. In fact, I do this with people all day long: drop conditioning without a massive awakening, resulting in huge freedom and fulfillment. But in this conversation, we are talking directly from True Nature and looking at the conditioning.

I think for many this conversation will sound ridiculous—like a bunch of false conclusions about life. However, this is because most of us are living with a bunch of conditioned ideas in the mind chronically making false conclusions about life.

Isn’t that amazing? Life with mind, versus life with life. A very different experience.

XK

Is it time for you to drop the conditioning? Class starts in 3 weeks. Join us!

What?! That is all I can say. WHAT?!?!

Okay, I can say a whole lot more. It’s maddening to watch the same prejudice, blame, and steamrolling happening from the very victims of it!

We need to expose the damage, harm, and suffering behind the horrifying misunderstanding that is behind the idea of “toxic masculinity”—an idea that is truly *toxic* itself. Stop the madness!

Confusing spiritual practices? Yeah, there is a whole host of misrepresentation, crappy teaching, powerful teaching and excellent clarity. The job is for you to listen to what resonates as TRUE to you….unless you want endurance training. Then sure, spiritual practice can give you that…

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4DcuiskmrfE

We humans need a season to be feral. We need a big chunk of doing-nothing to have more seasons of effective, smart, and fulfilling output. In all living things, creativity and nourishment require time off from the busy train. Time to loll about, nap, visit, and play. And the summer months are perfect for that. It’s hot, the kids are bored, the amusement parks, lakes, ocean, hiking trails are all ripe for the enjoying… So here is your encouragement to practice the lost art of LAZE!

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3nly_i09WEA

I’d love for you to know how to navigate anger in a healthy and sane way!

So, let’s crack open one of the top tips for navigating your own anger: communicating your boundaries!

Anger is always about boundaries. Communication helps us to stay in relationship; it’s not a way to get permission to be angry. Let’s talk about how you can do this skillfully…

Need some support in learning to communicate your boundaries? Book a private session with me.

Do you ever take on a project you know isn’t going to be perfect? Is it better to do something great, and pass on all the so-so projects? Or is it better to do something just to learn and practice? Do you present something half-assed? Or do you wait until it’s perfect?

It all depends… Let’s crack open the pros and cons, and figure out how we can let ourselves have a generous learning curve.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GKTqYTv47qE

Okay, let’s face it: relationships are hard. Mostly because you are lovers, roommates, business partners, AND friends. That’s a lot of hats. And if all those hats are full of fear, painful beliefs, and not-enough stories, relationships are really hard. And that is what we see all over: 99% of all relationships are made up of two partners each of whom have lots of fear and painful beliefs and no end to not-enough stories. And we see those fears and beliefs play out really painfully. But there are other options…

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KUhRfhiRVb0

We all have compulsions (not to use that word lightly), areas of our lives were we kinda go blind and reach for stimulus without really being conscious of what we are doing. And many of us have addictions (not to use that word lightly either), areas where we go deeply blind and unconscious and can not get a clear handle on it. But did you know the culprit behind them all is fear? Maybe you do, but let’s talk about what role it plays…

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=n14jE7NJ8Hc

What is moral? What is ethical? Guess it depends on your culture, on your religion, on your community? Or is there one basic, ultimate rule to live by? Is there good and evil?

I know and understand truth. And the tricky thing about truth is that there are no rules. It’s so simple, and that very simplicity is where the challenge is!

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tqvEKN3Hkr8