Shatara Oliver aka The Boss Boundaries shares her journey that led her to being the thought leader on boundaries. Have you ever let someone cross a boundary only to get mad at yourself later? Or maybe you gave into a demand from a co-worker without saying no? Your not alone. We have all set boundaries only to give in once someone constantly crosses them. But not anymore Shatara is sharing her secrets on how you can re-think how you look at boundaries. She is spilling tea on how you can set realistic boundaries with family, friends and co-workers that work.

Are boundaries easy? No; but if you communicate clearly what your expectations are then follow up with consequences if they are not met it will get easier. Ex:

Jim: Hey Sue can I borrow your car to go to the store

Sue: Yes but you have to bring my car back with the same amount of gas that you found it and no smoking in my care. If you do not put the gas back or if you smoke in my car I will not let you use my car again.

Remember boundaries are not meant to punish they are important to building healthy relationships.

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