Shelby Wagner began learning to dance in the rain when her husband passed away in 2016.  At times, it was a nightmarish experience.  She began to date on Internet dating services and was scammed.  As a result, she set out to create a book that would help others avoid the same situation by sharing her story as well as examples of the language used to draw you into these dangerous connections.  If you didn't know, in 2019, romance scams became the costliest scams, racking up $1 billion lost to these criminals because people want to be charitable to those in need.  Shelby says dating services are good services.  You just have to know how to do it the right way.