She's Iconic with Renee Marie

What happens when the life you thought you were building changes in an instant?

Today's conversation is especially full circle for me because I've known Yara de la Torre for close to a decade. We originally met during a completely different era of both of our lives, when Yara was one of my bridal hair education students and we even worked together one-on-one.

Neither of us could have imagined that all these years later, we'd be sitting down together having this conversation.

In 2019, Yara experienced a life-altering accident that left her paralyzed from the waist down and changed the trajectory of her life. But what followed wasn't simply a story of overcoming something hard. It became an unraveling, a remembering, and ultimately an entirely new chapter of who she was here to become.

In this episode, we talk about identity, grief, surrender, astrology, trusting the unknown, finding meaning in the moments that break us open, and what it looks like to allow yourself to become someone you never could have predicted.

We also explore the beautiful duality of being able to honor what you've lost without needing to make it “happen for a reason,” while still recognizing the woman you've become on the other side of it.

Because sometimes the life you never planned for becomes the doorway into a version of yourself you never knew existed.

This is an episode about what happens when the old identity no longer fits—and having the courage to follow what comes next.

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If this episode spoke to you, send it to the woman in your life who's standing in the middle of her own becoming.

And if you're in a season where you don't quite recognize the woman you used to be, but you can't fully see who you're becoming yet, keep going.

You don't need the entire path.

You just need the courage to follow what comes next.

And as always, remember who the fuck you are, icon♡

We would love to hear what spoke to you...don't be shy, send us a DM at @xoreneemarie and @cosmosyara

What happens when you've spent years building a life that looks successful from the outside... only to realize it no longer feels like yours?

In this episode of She's Iconic, I'm sitting down with my friend Caryn for a conversation about evolution, identity, self-trust, and the courage it takes to walk away from versions of ourselves we've outgrown — even when we've invested years building them.

After more than two decades building within an eight-figure business, Caryn found herself confronting a truth so many high-achieving women eventually face: success doesn't mean much if you lose yourself in the process.

We talk about what it actually looks like to honor that knowing. The identities we attach to our accomplishments. The messy in-between when you know you can't go back, but you can't fully see what's next yet. And what becomes possible when you stop performing the life you think you're supposed to want and start trusting yourself enough to create the one that's actually true for you.

Caryn also shares what emerged on the other side of her own evolution and the vision behind Live Iconic Live — an experience and community created for women who desire success, beauty, connection and expansion without the loneliness, facade, or self-abandonment that can so often accompany it.

This conversation is your permission slip to evolve.

Because sometimes becoming who you're here to be means having the courage to release who you worked so hard to become.

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There are moments in leadership when honoring yourself means slowing down, listening to your body, and allowing yourself to receive.

And then there are moments when you need to stop letting your feelings run the show and make shit happen.

So… how do you know the difference?

In this episode of She’s Iconic, I’m joined by my friend Annie Whitney—executive operator, brand strategist, advisor, and founder of The Anomaly Factor—for a conversation about the duality required to lead at a high level.

We get into the tension between receiving and executing, intuition and avoidance, honoring your nervous system and expanding its capacity, and why multiple truths can exist at the exact same time.

We talk about what happens when “alignment” becomes an excuse not to move, why you won’t always feel your best when you’re making money or creating momentum, and how becoming a more conscious leader changes the way you make decisions.

Because trusting yourself doesn’t mean blindly following every feeling.

Sometimes your body is giving you wisdom. Sometimes your nervous system is trying to keep you inside what’s familiar. Leadership is learning to discern the difference.

And apparently, there was even more to say—because technology decided to end the conversation for us. 😂 Annie’s phone disrupted the recording toward the end of our conversation, so if you notice the episode ends a little abruptly… that’s why.

Consider it our sign that this conversation isn’t finished.

Part Two is coming🎙️

If this landed for you, share it with someone who needs to hear it.

And as always—

remember who the f*ck you are, icon. 🔥

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If you’re in a season where your old way of leading no longer fits, but you’re still discerning what’s next, this is exactly the work I do privately with women.

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The old way isn't working anymore... and maybe it's not supposed to.

If you've been questioning your career, your identity, your business, or the way you've always led, this conversation is for you.

In this powerful episode of She's Iconic, Renee Marie sits down with Human Design practitioner, hypnotherapist, educator, and founder of Design Synthesis, Tresa Rivera, to explore why so many women are experiencing massive shifts in this season of life—and what Human Design can teach us about returning to who we truly are.

Together, they dive into:

• Why so many women are reinventing themselves right now
• The collective shift leading into 2027 and what it could mean for conscious leadership
• How Human Design helps you understand your unique gifts, leadership style, and decision-making
• Why understanding your children's unique design can transform the way you parent
• The connection between Human Design, the nervous system, authenticity, and self-trust
• How to stop forcing, over-performing, and trying to fit into someone else's blueprint

Whether you're a leader, entrepreneur, parent, or simply navigating your next evolution, this conversation will challenge you to question everything you thought you knew about yourself—and give you permission to become who you were always designed to be.

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Your next level isn't about becoming someone else.

It's about becoming fully seen for who you already are.

If you're ready for your message and visibility to reflect your true brilliance, I'd love to support you inside a Visibility Audit.

💞 If this episode resonated with you, I'd be so grateful if you'd subscribe, leave a review, and share it with another woman who's in her next evolution.

Remember who the f*ck you are, icon ❤️

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In this episode of She’s Iconic, Renee is speaking directly to the high-achieving woman who has done the work.

The woman who has been to therapy, invested in masterminds, journaled, meditated, learned her attachment style, named her triggers, and can explain exactly where the pattern comes from… and yet still finds herself circling the same old defaults in her body.

Because self-aware is not the same as rewired.

In this powerful episode, Renee unpacks the blind spots she couldn’t see in herself until nervous system work revealed what was actually running underneath the surface — money wounds disguised as strategy, urgency disguised as ambition, overgiving disguised as generosity, control disguised as regulation, and managing perception disguised as leadership.

This is the hill she will die on: nervous system rewiring is the missing link for aligned, embodied leadership.

Because you don’t repeat patterns because you’re unconscious.

You repeat patterns because they still feel safe in your body.

And if you are the woman who has carried everything, held everything, led through everything, and learned how to survive at a high level, this episode will help you see the difference between being strong, being self-aware, and actually being regulated.

This conversation is for the woman who is ready to lead, sell, decide, receive, be seen, raise her standards, and move into her next level without feeling like she has to abandon herself to do it.

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Let's connect on Instagram @xoreneemarie

Remember who tf you are icon 🔥

Every high-achieving woman has versions of herself she must shed in order to rise.

The people-pleaser.

The perfectionist.

The overprover.

The overthinker.

The woman who outsourced her power.

The woman who needed everyone else's approval before trusting herself.

In this episode, I'm breaking down the five biggest patterns I see keeping ambitious women circling the same level in their business, leadership, visibility, and life.

Because your next level is rarely blocked by a lack of strategy.

More often, it's being capped by the conditioning, beliefs, nervous system patterns, and identity attachments that no longer align with who you're becoming.

We'll explore:
• The 5 most common patterns keeping women stuck
• How these patterns show up in business and leadership
• Why more information isn't the answer
• How to identify what's actually creating the plateau
• What it takes to step into your next level with more ease, alignment, and self-trust

You don't become the iconic woman by adding more.

You become her by shedding the versions of yourself that were built for survival instead of truth.

If this episode resonated with you and you're ready to uncover what's actually keeping you stuck, I invite you to book a Clarity Call or a deep dive Visibility & Authority Audit.

Let's identify the pattern, clear the noise, and create a path forward that actually feels aligned.

Connect with me on Instagram @xoreneemarie 💋 I would love to hear from you what resonated and what you would like to hear more of. XO

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What if the thing standing between you and your next level isn't a lack of strategy, discipline, confidence, or talent?

What if it's the hidden pattern underneath the thing you think is the problem?

In today's powerful conversation, I sit down with high-performance psychic, nervous system specialist, and bestselling author Christine Banno to unpack the hidden survival patterns that keep brilliant women circling the same level despite having the skills, desire, and ambition to create more.

We dive into her new book, The Ferrari Frequency: What's Really Between You and Your Next Million, and explore why so many high-achieving women unknowingly have one foot on the gas and one foot on the brake.

Inside this episode we discuss:

✨ Why success can feel unsafe to your nervous system

✨ The real reason high achievers procrastinate, overthink, and self-sabotage

✨ Why regulating your nervous system isn't the same as rewiring it

✨ How trauma and past experiences shape your current decisions

✨ The difference between building capacity and constantly managing overwhelm

✨ Why visibility, leadership, and success can trigger hidden resistance

✨ The powerful question that changed everything:
"Why might you not want the thing you say you want?"

✨ How to identify the hidden pattern keeping you stuck

✨ Why you're not broken—and never were

This conversation is honest, unfiltered, hilarious, and deeply transformative.

If you've ever felt like you know you're capable of more but can't figure out what's holding you back, this episode is for you.

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Instagram: @christinebanno

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Book a Clarity Call or Business & Money Leak Audit and let's identify what's really keeping you from your next level. Book your session with Renee Marie HERE or send me a DM @xoreneemarie

Remember who the fuck you are, icon 🔥

In this episode of She’s Iconic, Renee Marie dives into the hidden reason so many high-achieving women feel disconnected, exhausted, and uninspired in their businesses… they are building from self-protection instead of truth.

This conversation explores how your nervous system naturally craves belonging, approval, and safety — which can lead to watering yourself down, hiding parts of your mission, softening your voice, and trying to be “for everyone” in order to be chosen.

But the truth?

The moment you stop abandoning yourself is the moment your business becomes magnetic.

Renee shares a powerful story about navigating emotional suppression in a past narcissistic relationship — and how those experiences shaped the way she showed up online and in leadership.

Inside this episode, we explore:

• Why high-achieving women dilute themselves online
• The nervous system’s need for universal acceptance
• How self-protection disconnects you from your true magnetism
• Why specificity creates powerful client attraction
• The emotional exhaustion caused by shape-shifting in business
• What happens when you finally root into your truth and convictions
• How to stop performing and start leading from full alignment

This is your reminder that you are not here to be digestible to everyone.
You are here to deeply resonate with the people meant for your work.

If this episode speaks to you, DM Renee the word “AUDIT” on Instagram @xoreneemarie or book your Audit here: Business Uplevel & Money Leak Audit

And for the month of May, if Renee determines during your audit that the Diamond Standard Room is an aligned next step for you, your first month inside the room will be included complimentary.

Remember who the fuck you are, icon.

What happens when the life that looks successful no longer feels aligned?

In this episode of She's Iconic, I sit down with trademark attorney and entrepreneur Berkley Sweet Apple to talk about the messy middle of reinvention… the season where your nervous system is screaming, your identity is shifting, and your soul is asking you to trust yourself before you have proof.

Berkley shares her journey from high-stress litigation attorney to building a legally empowered online business that actually supports her life, motherhood, peace, and nervous system — not just her bank account.

We talk about:
✨ leaving behind identities that no longer fit
✨ learning the difference between fear and misalignment
✨ entrepreneurship and nervous system regulation
✨ visibility, self-trust, and becoming comfortable being uncomfortable
✨ raising your energetic standards and capacity
✨ trademarks, legal protection, and why protecting your business matters
✨ building a business that gives you freedom instead of burnout

This conversation is for the woman who feels the pull toward something more aligned… but keeps questioning herself because the next version of her life hasn’t fully materialized yet.

You are not crazy for wanting more peace.
You are not behind for evolving.
And you are not delusional for hearing the whisper that says: there is more for you than this.

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If you’ve been doing everything right—investing, growing, showing up—and yet something still feels heavy…

This episode is going to shift everything for you.

Because the truth is:
👉 You’re not lacking strategy.
👉 You’re not behind.
👉 You’re not doing it wrong.

You’re just out of alignment with your unique blueprint.

In this episode, I’m breaking down:

• How I used my Soul Contract + Human Design to finally understand myself on a deeper level
• Why hustle has never worked for me long-term (and probably not for you either)
• The hidden ways you may be leaking money through misalignment
• What it actually means to become an embodied, iconic leader
• And how to expand your income, visibility, and impact without forcing it

I also share my personal Soul Contract codes—including:
✨ 12 → 3 (expression + voice)
✨ 7–7 (intuition + recalibration)
✨ 6–6 (leadership + holding space)
✨ 22 → 4 (sustainable wealth + legacy)

And how these reflected everything I already knew… but hadn’t fully trusted.

Because that’s the work:
👉 Not becoming someone new
👉 But remembering who you’ve always been

Misalignment is expensive.

It costs you:

• money
• energy
• opportunities
• and trust in yourself

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I’ve created a space for this level of work:

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(Use it as a mirror—not a rulebook)

The wealthiest version of you isn’t hustling.
She’s not chasing.
She’s not forcing.

She’s aligned.

It’s time to stop forcing your next level—and start becoming the woman who can actually hold it.