🎙️ Shift Four: Love, Safety & Stability

What Childhood Taught Me About Love

The way we experience love as children becomes the blueprint for how we expect it as adults — even when we don’t realize it.

In this shift, I’m talking about how childhood shapes what feels safe, what feels familiar, and why calm relationships can sometimes feel uncomfortable if you grew up around unpredictability.

We explore:

    •    How early experiences shape attachment and expectations

    •    Confusing intensity with connection

    •    Why peace can feel unfamiliar after chaos

    •    How childhood patterns show up in marriage

    •    Choosing stability over survival

This episode isn’t about blaming the past — it’s about understanding how we were wired and giving ourselves permission to choose differently.

If you’ve ever reacted strongly in a relationship and later realized it wasn’t about the present moment… this shift is for you.

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