Feminism has become so pervasive that it has even infiltrated Christian institutions and deceived us into believing that men aren't good Husbands if they hold their wife accountable, tell them the truth they don't want to hear, or give them commands and directions as any normal leader would. Instead, Christians have been convinced that leadership is doing everything for the wife and never offending her. It is true that Christ came to serve, not to be served. However, being a leader who serves others doesn't mean what most think of when they hear the term "servant leader."