Everything said on this episode is for couples that are working towards settling down together, you both are working towards the same thing, in my opinion these things are normal. Relationships consist of both parties showing up for each other, as a Man also, if you come over for the weekend and the lady is caught up in life, will you show up and help her with things in the house? Or you gonna become a spectator? Communication and Comprehension matters alot in relationships. I hope we all find our special someone.