Dear Sam,

Hey, really lost. I have been dating” this man for years! I have seen him twice since meeting. He’s a wonderful guy but literally lacks communication skills and he has so much going on in his personal life. In my heart of hearts I don’t believe he is cheating. My issue is though that I am missing that physical connection one gets with their partner. I am missing being around him and just in his company. He keeps saying soon, soon, soon and when it happens it will be worth it but I feel like I am cheating myself out of livings my life waiting on him. What can I do to ease this feeling or do I just live and see if maybe God brings us back? Please Help!