If your over 21 years old and your parents are still trying to control everything you do, You need to separate yourself and fly into independence! We have a lot of people live their lives in fear (so called safety net) and its because of their parents. It doesn't have to be like that, you have to find your own way and start pursuing a career or a life you have always wanted. Its never to late to free yourself, what's important is that you start now!