Many may have encounter such experience where they were overwhelmed with a person's background and do not know how to react. Vice versa, there are people who have been having dillema whether they should or should not share their past with their prospective spouse.

Here we try to discuss it and hope to give various perpectives on the pros and cons.

Our disclaimer: we are here to widen our views and views of others. Nothing we conclude are the absolute truth or correctness. We would like to widen our oerspective and perspective of others. Thus we welcome any views and perspective of yours with an open mind.