From baking sheets to books to sweaters and even ipods, how do you deal with giving an ex their stuff back? We're here to discuss how to approach the stuff swap and share stories that run the range from petty to enlightening. Vanessa shares her "shove it in a bag and drop it off in the dead of night" method vs Melissa's mature two-day discussion with a well-planned exchange of items. There's no right or wrong here (as long as you're not leaving a flaming pile of poop in a bag...)