Planning a wedding comes with big decisions… and one of the trickiest? Deciding whether to hire your friends as your vendors.

In this episode of Behind “I Do,” we’re diving into the real pros, cons, and hidden risks of mixing friendship with business on your wedding day. From DJs who double as weekend club performers to photographers who are also guests, we’ve seen it all—and we’re breaking it down so you can make the best decision for your day.

We cover:

• Why couples choose to hire friends (and when it actually works)
• The biggest red flags to watch for 🚩
• How blurred boundaries can create stress (and how to avoid it)
• Contracts, communication, and setting expectations early
• When it’s better to have your friend as a guest instead of a vendor
• Real stories from weddings where things went right… and very wrong

Hiring a friend can be amazing—but only if it’s handled the right way. This episode gives you the tools to protect your wedding, your investment, and your relationships.

🎧 Whether you're a bride, groom, vendor, or just love weddings—this is your backstage pass to what really happens behind “I Do.”