SEEN in the comments of an ad (not my ad as it happens) promising to help women improve their marriages without the husband’s buy in: “Sounds like a scam. Shouldn’t the man share responsibility?”

This one got me thinking. I want to answer this. If you’re putting the finishing touches on the Cruella DeVil costume for your plucky ten year old, lean in, because the answer to the question: Shouldn’t the man share responsibility is…