Show Up With Christine Chang

We often want others to be accountable when dating, but are YOU being accountable? Do you take charge and show up in an effective manner, or are you constantly blaming other people + modern dating culture? Have you been guilty of saying things like, “no one wants to commit” or “I hate online dating”?!

On-air host Yue Xu is on the podcast and is the dating BFF you didn’t know you needed. During our conversation, we talk about:

• A healthy approach to online dating
• How to be “normal” when dating. i.e. when is a good time to call someone after a good date?
• Healing from infidelity
• Dating the “spiritually enlightened” person
• Why love languages and attachment styles are BS

Yue Xu’s website: https://www.yuexu.com/

Yue Xu’s Instagram: @nonplatonic

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Are you codependent? Do you want to feel safe and feel liberated in love? Mark Groves talks about his new book Liberated Love, written alongside his wife Kylie McBeath. Mark is an old friend of mine, so during the conversation we also have silly talk about:

• Mid-life crisis and Life in your Forties
• Botox, Lip injections, Butt Implants
• How Religion can make people do weird things
• Leaving Social Media
• Narcissism and Men out of integrity

Mark & Kylie’s book Liberated Love is available for purchase at all major book dealers.

Mark Groves Youtube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/@markgroves

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Do you have to be Asian to hire an Asian matchmaker? May Bugenhagen, AKA “Matchmaker May,” introduces men of all ethnicities to Asian women. If you have ever been curious about hiring a matchmaker, in this episode May talks about what it’s like to work with her. We also talk about her personal love life (she got married in her forties), love languages, dating etiquette, and what to look for in a long term partner.

May Bugenhagen’s Instagram, FB, & Tiktok: @matchmakermay

May Bugenhagen’s Matchmaking website: https://twoasianmatchmakers.com/

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Kevin Kreider is back on the podcast to give an update on his love life and career in Asian Entertainment. Last time Kevin came on the podcast two years ago, he was single and had just finished season one of Bling Empire. Now he is in a long-term relationship with an old girlfriend Devon - a romance rekindled after Kevin became sober.

Kevin Kreider & Christine Chang talk about love, business, and the Asian Entertainment scene. They discuss:

• Learning to be in relationship when you’ve been single for a long time
• Boundaries when you work with you romantic partner
• Alcoholism, getting sober, and the 12 step program
• Are Asians prejudice against good looking people?

Kevin Kreider's Instagram: @kevin.kreider

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Entrepreneur Aliscia Brorman shares her story of growing up in foster care and how it has impacted her intimate relationships. *Warning: This episode may contain triggers of sexual abuse and abandonment.

During the conversation we talk about:

• Healing childhood trauma and healing an addiction to chaos
• Distracting ourselves through accomplishment
• Creating a persona based on survival
• Learning self love before helping others

We also talk about giving back to foster youth (something I am very passionate about)! To get involved with Foster Love: https://www.fosterlove.com/

Aliscia Brorman's Instagram: @the.ali.vue

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Jules Aurora and Christine Chang have girl-talk about breakups + what they have learned so far in relationships. Jules had a public relationship that ended earlier this year. She shares what she has done on her healing journey, including writing music to share what’s on her heart. I think everyone can agree that breakups are NOT fun! We talk about:

- Healing our relationship patterns

- The pressure of perfectionism in a public relationship

- How to know your dreams are on the way. :)

Jules Aurora’s Instagram: @julesaurora

Jules Aurora’s website: https://www.julesaurora.com/

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Savior Complex: A need to save others, often neglecting your own needs in the process. Do you have Savior Complex? Kat Shelton shares the story of having a “wake up” moment to truly begin taking care of herself after she realized she was completely ignoring her own needs. Her healing journey began with her physical body - healing from a chronic auto-immune disease, and then moved to emotional and spiritual healing (since everything is connected, anyway)! After arriving at a point where she felt healthy and clear, she opened herself to love and met her partner Eben.

During this conversation, we discuss:

- Healing the physical body from a chronic auto-immune disease

- The importance of community on your personal growth journey

- How to heal from Savior Complex in order to create a healthy relationship

- What to look out for if you are dating someone who is still healing from a previous relationship.

Kat Shelton’s Instagram: @beloved.body

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Do you ever feel like you are too independent to be married? Do you feel like you might intimidate men? Michelle Wong is the Chief Marketing Officer of Sprinkles Cupcakes. She is a fiercely independent, high performing, C-suite executive who travels 50% of the year, and, she's been happily married for 17 years.

In this episode we talk about how to be independent while also in a relationship. She talks about flowing through marriage with her husband Dave, living in abundance, and staying unapologetically true to you.

Michelle Wong's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/michimichibee/

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Author & Comedian Kelsey Chittick is back on the podcast. Last time she came on the show two years ago, she had just finished her book Second Life, a book about healing after her husband suddenly died. Now Kelsey is dating and loving life again! We talk about: 

• Dating in your forties
• How to find new friends
• How to feel like you’re on drugs all the time, without taking drugs
• Learning about yourself through sex

Kelsey Chittick’s website: https://kelseychittick.com/

Kelsey Chittick’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/kelseydchittick/

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What is masculinity in today’s world? Eben Britton is an Ex-NFL Athlete turned yogi. He is a conscious Alpha man, so I asked him to come on the show so I could ask him some questions about masculinity. We discuss:

• The history of masculinity and mens' “role”
• Traits of a masculine man
• The negative impact of pornography
• Healing the mother wound
• Cheating, lust, and infidelity

Eben Britton is Author of the Eben Flow, and host of the Eben Flow Podcast. 

Eben Britton’s Instagram: @edsbritton 

Eben Britton’s website: https://www.ebenbritton.com

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