How do you know when to have a hard conversation—and how to have it with grace? In this episode of Side Notes, Arch and Brandy unpack a practical, heartfelt approach to conflict. Learn how to discern if something is worth bringing up (or just a “nothingburger”), why your expectations matter, and how to invite God into the process—even when it’s messy.

But first: it’s Memorial Day recaps, arcade generosity, Crocs on the court (don’t try this at home), and a hopeful mug souvenir named “Gary” from Josh’s Myrtle Beach vacation. Arch and Brandy swap stories about chilly ball fields, celebrating the end of the school year, playing basketball in questionable footwear, and why applause buttons should be labeled more clearly.

Then we dive into the real talk: what do we do when conflict arises? From prayerful preparation to wise timing and humble conversations, this episode gives you a thoughtful framework—Nothingburgers, Red Flags, and Head Scratchers—to help you navigate tough situations well.