All In Your Bizz w/ Reka & Los

Silence Protects No One: Choosing Transparency Over Tradition


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The first minutes feel like a family reunion—holidays, life updates, and a grateful shout to the listeners who kept nudging us back to the mic—then we flip the switch to what matters now. We map out Texas voting dates, explain why checking registration and party status prevents last-minute chaos, and show how a sample ballot turns anxiety into a game plan. Bring a paper cheat sheet, take your kid for that sticker, and make early voting the new norm instead of a rain-or-traffic gamble.

From there, we wade into deeper water with care and honesty: the weight of family secrets in Black communities. Using a story about passing, abuse, and fractured identity as a launch point, we name patterns many recognize but rarely unpack—surprise siblings at funerals, “uncles” who are actually fathers, relatives everyone quietly steers kids away from, and financial harm like utilities in a child’s name. We sit with the reasons silence took root—survival, shame, respectability—and how those reasons no longer serve safety or healing. Privacy isn’t the same as secrecy; one protects dignity, the other often protects harm.

We talk timing and truth: when to tell kids, how to keep facts age-appropriate, and why clarity is a gift even when it stings. Practical steps anchor the conversation—prepare what you need to say, choose a safe place, invite a trusted third voice, document what matters, watch for red flags, and center children’s safety without apology. We hold space for faith, humor, and the messy middle, because vulnerability rarely arrives neat. Letting secrets go doesn’t shame a family; it strengthens one. The goal isn’t to expose, it’s to heal—so the next generation inherits courage, not confusion.

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All In Your Bizz w/ Reka & LosBy Los & Reka