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Silent Killers Pt.1 REJECTION


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Silent Killers Pt.1 REJECTION 

Sunday, May 3, 2020

1 Samuel 16:1, 6-12

Infection occurs when viruses, bacteria, or other microbes enter your body and begin to multiply. Disease occurs when the cells in your body are damaged as a result of infection, and signs and symptoms of an illness appear. An infection is when something from the outside gets on the inside and starts to destroy your body from the inside out. The infection is silently killing you before the symptoms appear. 

Example/illustration; Building barbed wire fence as a kid, I was always getting cut. Eventually it would scab over and then go away. Sometimes, if the wound was deep enough and it went unaddressed, it could get infected. It may scab over and look ok on the outside (for a time) while still doing damage on the inside. Eventually, symptoms would start too manifest on the outside eluding to what was going on on the inside. Redness, swelling, pus, etc... If still left untreated, this small wound could eventually set up gangrene and cause me to loose a limb or die! The danger of unaddressed wound is it becomes subject to infection! The cut might not kill you, but the infection will! 

Today I want to talk about a silent killer called rejection! Rejection is something that everybody has to deal with. No mater who you are, your educational background, your cultural background, socioeconomic background, you either have or will experience rejection on some level.

Jesus’ life was full of rejection! 

  • Rejected by the inn keeper, “No room for you here, sleep in the barn.” 
  • Rejected by the religious scholars, “can anything good come from Nazareth.” 
  • Rejected by the ones He came to save, “Give us Barabus”! 
  • Rejected by Peter, “I do not know Him!”. 
  • Rejected by the Father, “My God my God, why have you forsaken me!”.
  • Jesus was despised and rejected so you could be loved and accepted! 
  • The word rejection comes from the Latin and means to throw backwards. The enemy wants to use rejection to take you backward and keep you from moving forward in what God has for you. Rejection is a soul wound.
  • A soul wound is a different kind of wound.  It is not a physical wound, it is an internal wound. You can be wounded on the inside and look fine on the outside! 
  • When we underestimate this type of wound we do not address this type of wound. And unaddressed wound will cause an infection Of the soul.
  • An infection caused by rejection does not manifest in pus, but personalities. This will cause us to mistake infection for identity.
    • That bad attitude… Thats not identity, that’s infection! 
    • That hard heartedness, not allowing anyone to get close to you.. Unable to connect on anything more than surface level… That’s not identity, that’s infection!
    • That works mentality that says “if I want something done right I have to do it myself”, that’s infection!
    • That people pleasing tendency that sacrifices your purpose on the alter of some else’s pleasure… That’s infection!
    • That messiah complex that drives me to swoop in and save the day, help people who don’t even want to help themselves… That’s infection! 
    • That timidity that will not allow your to use the gifts and talents God gave you because your afraid of failure… Thats not identity, That’s infection!
    • We cannot dismiss dysfunction as identity! Why? Because dismissed dysfunction will destroy destiny! 
    • We don’t want to deal with dysfunction because it hurts! 
    • No doubt God is the great healer, but sometimes I would prefer a little more anesthetic. An anesthetic is a substance that induces insensitivity to pain.
    • The Lord spoke to me and said; “There is power in pain. Pain will motivate you to change. When you are tired enough of the pain you will deal with the cause. I shielded you from experiencing much of the pain because you couldn’t handle it, but I allowed you to experience a certain amount of pain to persuade you of my faithfulness!”
    • Transition: Rejection is a silent killer! If left unaddressed, it is a wound that will destroy your life from the inside out. Our text and the overall story of our text is full of rejection and the corresponding manifestations. I can not find anyone in the Bible other than Jesus who experienced more rejection that David. But David was not the only one in our text to experience rejection. 

      “Now the Lord said to Samuel, “How long will you mourn for Saul, seeing I have rejected him from reigning over Israel? Fill your horn with oil, and go; I am sending you to Jesse the Bethlehemite. For I have provided Myself a king among his sons.” 

        • Samuel was partial to king Saul because God had used him to anoint him King. He was mourning over the rejection of Saul. Sometimes you have to stop looking at the dead things to see the living
        • Samuel was taking Saul’s rejection personally and it was restricting his movement! Rejection will keep you locked in the past when God wants to move you into your future! 
        • Rejection will keep you mourning dead things and cause you to miss new opportunities. 
        • Rejection will affect movement
        • 6 So it was, when they came, that he looked at Eliab and said, “Surely the Lord’s anointed is before Him!” 7 But the Lord said to Samuel, “Do not look at his appearance or at his physical stature, because I have refused him. For the Lord does not see as man sees; for man looks at the outward appearance, but the Lord looks at the heart.”

            • Samuel was a seer yet he could not see that Eliab was not Gods chosen king. He was seeing through the eyes of disappointment and rejection.
            • Rejection can distort your vision! 
            • When you not seeing clearly you revert back to the last thing God did and how He did it. 
              • 1 Samuel 9:2 NKJV [2] And he had a choice and handsome son whose name was Saul. There was not a more handsome person than he among the children of Israel. From his shoulders upward he was taller than any of the people.
              • Saul was the people’s choice based on the peoples criteria, But God said, No Samuel, we are doing it my way this time! 
              • Don’t let the rejection of others distort your vision. 
              • Some of you are looking at todays spouse through a 20 year old divorce! 
              • Some of your are looking at your future calling though the eyes of your past failure! 
              • Rejection will affect vision!
              • he looked at Eliab and said, “Surely the Lord’s anointed is before Him!” 7 But the Lord said to Samuel, “…I have refused him.

                  • Eliab was rejected for a position he wasn’t even seeking! 
                  • What if for Eliab, this wasn’t a test, but training? What if God was training Eliab to walk about from things he wants, but don’t belong to him? 
                  • Everything that looks like elevation isn’t my assignment. 
                  • Sometimes God will take something away from you in one season to teach you to walk away from something in another season! 
                  • Sometimes rejection is for your own good! Sometimes, God will use rejection to sharpen discernment
                  • 1 Samuel 17:28 Now Eliab his oldest brother heard when he spoke to the men; and Eliab’s anger was aroused against David, and he said, “Why did you come down here? And with whom have you left those few sheep in the wilderness? I know your pride and the insolence of your heart, for you have come down to see the battle.”29 And David said, “What have I done now? Is there not a cause?” 30 Then he turned from him toward another and said the same thing

                      • Rejection perceived wrong will be handled wrong! 
                      • Rejection will cause you to be angry with people who didn't even reject you! 
                      • Rejected people reject people will often reject others to make themselves feel better about the perception they have of themselves. 
                      • The hurt of rejection will manifest in your words. Because you question your value, you will use words to diminish the value of others. 
                      • Rejection will cause you to be dismissed. “What have I done now?” Is an indicator that this was not a new thing but an ongoing attitude from Eliab toward David. 
                      • 10 Thus Jesse made seven of his sons pass before Samuel. And Samuel said to Jesse, “The Lord has not chosen these.” 11 And Samuel said to Jesse, “Are all the young men here?” Then he said, “There remains yet the youngest, and there he is, keeping the sheep.” And Samuel said to Jesse, “Send and bring him. For we will not sit down till he comes here.” 

                          • 6 more sons passed by. I’m sure Samuel was confused by now. “Lord, I thought you told me to ….”
                          • This is the first mention of David in the Bible. The first time we hear of David, we hear of rejection. David’s story begins with him being rejected by men, yet appointed by God! 
                          • He was relegated to the worst task in the family. Exiled to the fields to tend sheep! 
                          • His own family, the ones closest to him didn't even know there was a King in Him! Just because they see you often doesn’t mean they see you right! 
                          • He was isolated… Sometimes the isolation of rejection will open the door to the comfort of intimacy! 
                          • It might be that the people who rejected you in one season God will make stand for you in another season! 
                          • 12 So he sent and brought him in. Now he was ruddy, with bright eyes, and good-looking. And the Lord said, “Arise, anoint him; for this is the one!” 13 Then Samuel took the horn of oil and anointed him in the midst of his brothers; and the Spirit of the Lord came upon David from that day forward.

                              • I can imagine how David must have felt when he shows up and see’s whats going on. 
                                • “Dad, you couldn’t even call me?” “You didn’t think enough of me to even include me.” 
                                • Rejected by his dad. The one who was supposed to protect him. The one charged with raising him. The one who was supposed to be there for him no matter what! 
                                • The rejection that hurts the most is from those closest to you
                                • You're going to choose addiction over me, your own son. 
                                • Most of the time rejection says more about them than it does about you!
                                  • Many scholars believe that David’s father rejected him because he was the child of another women. David said “Behold, I was brought forth in iniquity, And in sin my mother conceived me.”
                                  • It could be that David’s father rejected him because he reminded him of his own failures. 
                                  • There stands David, picked by God to hold the highest position in the known world, yet rejected by his own father. 
                                  • Oily yet injured! Anointed but broken. Talented yet tormented by rejection. 
                                  • Don’t mistake anointing for healing! 
                                  • Many people refuse to deal with the wound of rejection because they think they are good because their anointed. 
                                  • Jesus was despised and rejected so you could be loved and accepted! 

                                    • For some of you, the silent killer of rejection is killing you softly. You look good on the outside, but inside your dying. 
                                    • Don't let the wound of rejection infected the rest of your life. Jesus paid the price, He took your place so that you could take His! 
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