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"And I think even if we don't understand, because to be honest with you, we're not going to understand as far as understanding where they're coming from and why they believe that way or while their values are that way, as much as the way we show the empath of us is that we just listen. So listening sometimes can help understand because there is times we're not going to completely understand where they're coming from."