Single, Not Sorry!

Money. 💰 It’s one of those topics that can turn a perfectly pleasant conversation into a full-blown bar fight—and in the singlesphere, there’s plenty to talk about!

In this episode of Single, Not Sorry, Debbi and Leslie tackle the good, the bad, and the downright annoying parts of beingsingle when it comes to money. On the plus side, there’s freedom. Your money is YOUR money, and you get to decide whether your financial love language is saving, spending, investing, or occasionally blowing $300 on somethingcompletely unnecessary. No partner’s spending habits, questionable purchases, or gambling problem required.

But then there’s the downside: one income, all the bills,and nobody to split expenses with or bounce financial decisions off of. And let’s not forget the dreaded Singles Tax—paying more simply because you’re one person.

Being single may put you at a financial disadvantage in some ways, but there’s one major perk: 100% control overyour money. And that’s worth a lot!

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Book, ⁠⁠⁠⁠"Good in Bed"⁠⁠⁠

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Living alone isn’t something to dread—it can actually be one of the best parts of single life! In this episode of Single, Not Sorry, Debbi and Leslie dive into the serious and seriously funny joys of having a home that’s completely your own.

From decorating exactly how you want and choosing where (and how) you live, to deciding how clean—or messy—your space is, living alone means no compromising required. And then there are the little perks: your snacks are always where you left them, nobody’s dirty underwear is on the floor, and you’re free to walk around naked, sing at the top of your lungs, or dance in the living room whenever the mood strikes.

But what if living alone doesn’t feel so joyful? Debbi and Leslie share practical ways to make it easier, including creating background “company,” staying connected with friends and family, making mealtimes more enjoyable, and taking steps to feel safer at home. Living alone may take some getting used to—but there’s a whole lot to love about having a space that’s truly yours!

Connect with Debbi:

Book, ⁠⁠⁠"Good in Bed"⁠⁠

⁠⁠Apparel Shop⁠⁠

Instagram: ⁠⁠@singleandamazing⁠

⁠⁠⁠Connect with Leslie:

⁠⁠Free Personality Type Quiz⁠⁠

⁠Bookstore⁠⁠

⁠⁠Lesliekaz.com⁠⁠

Instagram: ⁠⁠@lesliekaz-singleliving⁠⁠

In this episode of Single, Not Sorry—the singles podcast NOT about dating, Debbi and Leslie tackle a belief they hear all the time: “I’m not happy single” or “I could never be happy single.” But is being single really the problem?

We’re talking about why happiness has less to do with your relationship status and more to do with your mindset, confidence, and the way you choose to live your life. We’ll challenge the idea that marriage automatically equals happiness, take a closer look at how many married people are actually happy, and remind you that just because a relationship isn’t bad doesn’t necessarily mean it’s good.

Most importantly, we’ll talk about how to get happy now instead of waiting for a relationship—or some imagined future—to make your life complete. It starts with figuring out who you are, deciding what you really want, and making a plan to create your best life right now. Because anybody can be happy single—including you!

Connect with Debbi:

Book, ⁠⁠⁠"Good in Bed"⁠⁠

⁠⁠Apparel Shop⁠⁠

Instagram: ⁠⁠@singleandamazing⁠

⁠⁠⁠Connect with Leslie:

⁠⁠Free Personality Type Quiz⁠⁠

⁠Bookstore⁠⁠

⁠⁠Lesliekaz.com⁠⁠

Instagram: ⁠⁠@lesliekaz-singleliving⁠⁠

Society has a lot to say about what happiness is supposed tolook like—and marriage and partnership are usually front and center. In this episode of Single, Not Sorry, Debbi and Leslie take on the “S” word: society, and how its long-held expectations can get in the way of being genuinely happyas a single person.

They explore why marriage is still treated as the ultimatelife goal, why so many of us buy into that belief without questioning it, and how family, media, tradition, and the desire to belong reinforce the idea that partnered automatically means happier. They also discuss why these expectations can be especially tough on single, childless women.

Most importantly, Debbi and Leslie talk about how to recognize where these beliefs came from and start changing your mindset. Because society may not change overnight—but you get to decide what happiness and a fulfilling life look like for you.

Connect with Debbi:

Book, ⁠⁠"Good in Bed"⁠

⁠Apparel Shop⁠

Instagram: ⁠@singleandamazing

⁠Connect with Leslie:

⁠Free Personality Type Quiz⁠

Bookstore⁠

⁠Lesliekaz.com⁠

Instagram: ⁠@lesliekaz-singleliving⁠

Welcome to the very first episode of Single, Not Sorry!

Meet Debbi and Leslie, two certified life coaches, authors, and passionate advocates for helping single women embrace singlehood and create lives they genuinely love. And one thing you won’t find here? Dating advice!

In this introductory episode, Debbi and Leslie share how they met, why they quickly realized they were “twins separated at birth,” and what inspired them to join forces for this podcast. They’ll also give you a taste of what’s ahead: practical tips for navigating everyday singles issues, humorous personal stories, the occasional snarky tirade, and honest conversations about the things single women deal with every day.

Most importantly, Single, Not Sorry is about challenging tired stereotypes, ditching the pressure to chase the fairytale, and helping women choose and celebrate singlehood rather than simply settle for it. Get to know your hosts, then join the conversation by sharing your own single-life experiences and questions!

Find Debbi's book, "Good in Bed"

Find Leslie's book, "Single Girl Bliss: How to Stop Feeling Alone and Start Feeling Alive"

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Apparel Shop

Instagram: @singleandamazing

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Free Personality Type Quiz

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