In this episode I do a brief examination of the current events of Will Smith assaulting Chris Rock at the Oscars and why it happen and what we we to know about ourselves individually from making the same mistake. Secondly we expound on the three levels of relationship singleness, suitability, and spousal ship. What they are and personal identifiers every person should be aware of in their quest to be a better person, mate, or spouse. Lastly I illuminate the differences of spiritual and fleshly spousal suitability.