Life is. However, what we choose and don't choose makes life good or bad. It is not all the same. We love the laughter, the understanding, the appreciation, the complete result, the well-made meal.... Why? Because it is all the same?
No. But because life is good and it's supposed to be good. And when we choose good, there is all good. And only good.
If you don't like this and still prefer to see life as whatever, try this:
Make the shittiest dinner for yourself and try telling to yourself how good it is.
Then make the best dinner for yourself and say how good it is.
Are both good? No, only one is. Which one? The one where you did what was right for that dinner.
Welcome to life.