Sisters On The Front Lines Podcast

Today I am joined by Denver, who is an incredible example of Christlike charity.

Denver's story is raw, real, and full of hope. She was first exposed to pornography at age 10, spent years trapped in shame and addiction while publicly renouncing her faith in high school, battled severe depression and suicidal ideation, and finally rededicated her life to Christ in 2023. She has now been clean from pornography for over a year and is using her story to mentor other young women both online and in person at her church.

This episode is one of my favorites. Denver does not hold back — and I think that is exactly what someone who has been carrying this alone for years needs to hear.

In this episode we talk about:

• What it felt like to be exposed at age 10 and not understand what was happening
• Growing up in church hearing this topic only directed at guys and sinking in her seat
• How bullying, depression, and rejection fueled her addiction as a coping mechanism
• What it looked like to publicly renounce Christianity in high school while still feeling pulled back to God
• The moment at a young adults conference that finally broke the silence after ten years
• What happened when she told her parents — and how completely opposite it was from what she feared
• Why she was angry at God for forgiving her and what shifted that
• The difference between shame and conviction — and why not feeling shame after a slip is actually a sign that God is present
• What it means to want to be chosen by someone and how God's love meets that need
• How to find the right person to confess to — and why discernment matters more than timing
• Why nothing you have done can undo what Jesus did on the cross

Scriptures and references mentioned:

• Romans 8 — nothing can separate us from the love of God
• Hebrews 4 — since He was tempted in every way and did not sin He is our aid in temptation
• Isaiah 49:16 — behold I have engraved thee upon the palms of my hands
• Job — who are you to dictate what God can and cannot do
• Isaiah — how could the clay say to the potter what it deserves
• Hosea — God's relentless pursuit of His people no matter how many times they turn away
• 1 John 1:9 — He is faithful and righteous to cleanse us of all unrighteousness

Find Denver on Instagram and TikTok: @bigsis_denver

Do you have a story to share? DM me on Instagram @sistersonthefrontlines or email [email protected]

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Keep up the good fight on the front lines.

Today, I am joined by my friend and former mission bud, Avery Palenske. She's a 21-year-old BYU student from Alaska with one of the most honest, beautiful, and real stories I have ever heard.

In this episode, she bravely shares her full journey — from a habit that started in childhood, to finding literary pornography through Pinterest at 12, to feeling like a complete imposter as the star child of her stake, to struggling on her mission, to finally opening up and discovering she was not alone.

She is still in the middle of her journey. And that's what makes this episode so powerful.

Scriptures mentioned:

• Isaiah 1:18
• Jeremiah 29:11
• Doctrine and Covenants 138

Thanks for coming on Avery, you're incredible. :)

Do you have a story to share? DM me on Instagram @sistersonthefrontlines or email [email protected]

Looking for more support? I now offer 1:1 coaching, as well as a support group! Check it out here: sistersonthefrontlines.com

Helen Taylor | What Does Pornography Have to Do With Sex Trafficking?

In this episode, I am so honored to be joined by Helen Taylor, Vice President of Impact at Exodus Cry — a Christian organization dedicated to ending sex trafficking and holding the pornography industry accountable.

Helen has spent 16 years working on the front lines of this fight, from outreach in strip clubs and brothels to producing documentaries that have shifted culture and changed laws. She is one of the most knowledgeable and passionate people I have ever spoken with on this subject.

In this episode we cover:

• The real connection between pornography and sex trafficking
• Whether ethical porn actually exists
• The age verification movement and why an 80% drop in traffic in Louisiana matters
• What to do if you feel like you are part of the problem
• What God would say to someone struggling right now

I also get to share a little about my own experience being part of Helen's upcoming documentary, Girls on Porn — keep an eye out for that one.

This episode genuinely left me fired up and full of hope. I think it will do the same for you.

Links mentioned:

• Exodus Cry website: exoduscry.com
• Exodus Cry Instagram: @exoduscry
• Documentary — Raised on Porn: available on YouTube and exoduscry.com
• Petition — Protect Children Not Porn: https://exoduscry.com/pcnp/
• Fight the New Drug: fightthenewdrug.org
• National Center on Sexual Exploitation: ncose.com
• Protect Young Eyes: protectyoungeyes.com

Do you have a story to share?

DM me on Instagram @sistersonthefrontlines or email [email protected]

Looking for further help? I now offer 1:1 coaching and a support group! More info here:

sistersonthefrontlines.com

I am so grateful to Richard Ostler, host of the Listen, Learn, and Love podcast, for joining me on this episode! Richard uses his platform to give a voice to those who feel they may not have one, and is a true ambassador of Christ.

Here are a few links to things mentioned during the episode:

My episode on Richard's podcast: https://open.spotify.com/episode/24CpzktBau7rNlpzLz93mU?si=b74dc2ea0dd04745

Richard Ostler Chapter on Solving Porn Use: www.dropbox.com/s/w2ex40l4se85wku…0Culture.pdf?dl=0

Richard Ostler Liahona Article: www.churchofjesuschrist.org/study/ensig…se?lang=eng

I Stand At The Door Podcast: https://open.spotify.com/show/1lvmvY3ZsZmQw97BdrHL7r

This episode is very near and dear to my heart! Bishop Hilton was the very first person I opened up to about this and through his incredible ability to be an instrument in the hands of God, has greatly impacted my life for the better.

In this episode, we talk about when it's the right time to talk to a bishop (hint, it's always the right time), advice for leaders who may not know what to say, and why this is a cause to care about.

Bishop Hilton, you are so full of light. Thank you for being one of the reasons this podcast exists!

This episode is the first of a multi-part series specifically addressing this conversation with leaders. In this episode, I'm joined by Brother Mark Macdonald, a father, institute teacher, chaplain, former mission president, and incredible disciple of Jesus Christ. We discuss how and when to have this conversation with leaders, why it feels so scary, and share advice for those who may have had negative experiences with leaders in the past.

Thank you, Brother Macdonald, for helping us open up this conversation and approaching every question with Christlike charity.

It's good to be back! :)

What happens if I fall into a sin that I've repented of before?

How do I practically apply the Atonement of Jesus Christ in my daily life?

Find out in this very special episode with Brother Bradley R. Wilcox, First Counselor in the Young Men General Presidency of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints.

Read Brother Wilcox's talk: "Worthiness is Not Flawlessness" here:

https://www.churchofjesuschrist.org/study/general-conference/2021/10/35wilcox?lang=eng

His Grace is sufficient for you.

In this episode, we are joined by Dr Nathan Leonhardt. He is an assistant professor of Family Life at BYU. Nathan enjoys sports, arts and stories of all forms!

Dr Leonhardt shares with us how married couples can approach the topic of pornography in marriage. The way the couple addresses it can be crucial to their relationship. He touches on the importance of having empathy for your partner in times of honesty and recovery.

He teaches us different types of love and how to recognize them. In addition, he shares with us his research in long term marital sexuality for those that have used pornography.

Give this episode a listen to be edified!

In this episode, Chandler Rogers shares with us an app, Relay-Do Recovery Smarter.

You’ve been struggling alone for too long. Whether you're trying to quit addiction, break an unwanted habit, or find healing through a difficult challenge, it can be tough to struggle in isolation.

Relay makes it easy to find a strong support system to help you be successful.

Give this episode a listen to learn more!!

https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=app.jointribe

In this episode, you get to meet the new Sisters On The Front Lines Team! Fynlee, Maddy, and Camri. I know you will love them just as much as I do! Don't worry, episodes will still be uploaded regularly. :)

My goodness, the past 6 months have been some of the best of my life! Thank you all for your continued support. I'm headed out to serve a mission for the Church Of Jesus Christ Of Latter-Day Saints until April 2025! Keep up the good fight my friends.

Fynlee's Episode: https://open.spotify.com/episode/0QcY1lJlCf8oAtjnRFx5AU?si=c82946800e6e46ba

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