Intro/Opening remarksThe topic is: Where are we going? Return to the officeSPEARity (SPEARity.com)Cream City Marketing (creamcitymarketing.com)4:00 The world opening back up
In the last week, Brad has had his first face-to-face meetings in quite some timeClose to a time where in person meetups are no longer frowned uponBeing in a room for a networking event“It was weird for everybody” -B6:33 How to handle the return to normalcy
Brad’s storyPlanned to have a meeting with a developer who he hasn't seen in 2+ yearsMeet halfway, go to dinner, talk about work, have a few drinksRestaurant was full1 hr meeting turned into 4 hr meetingAwkward first connection (shake hand, elbow bump?)It’s going to be awkwardBe ChillGoing into a meeting knowing you’ve done it beforeYou know how to talk to peopleJust be chill“I underthought the logistics, and I overthought the mental aspects” -BLogisticallyTravel timeMore people are starting to work in the office/travel more so commute times will continue to rise againNeed extra time for driving, parking, walkingAdd extra time to your calendarBuffer time on both ends of the event + more time“This new normal will take 3-6 months” -B“The new normal is neither new nor normal” -MWe will never be back to the old “normal”Example is travel pre and post 9/11Things have changed for the better and will continue to improveWe are still in a transition, and we are all in different parts of the transition“Everyone is figuring out what they are comfortable doing” -M17:40 Know what you’re gonna do
Decide if you’re going to shake hands, elbow bump, or just say hiEliminates the awkward moment you meetStick with it, people don’t want to make the first moveCall/make reservations at restaurantsMore people are dining out and will relieve stress on your side and the restaurant sideServers are on their game right nowHaven’t been busy in a long timeLooking to help as many people to get more/bigger tipsDon’t waste their time - ask for more time if you aren’t ready to orderLet them help others instead of waiting for you to decide“The small-talk is going to take a long time right now” -BThe feeling of talking in person is way different than a Zoom meeting24:22 The things you forgot
You are reestablishing relationshipsExpectations and emotions are overlappedPrepare mentally for the anxiety and awkwardnessPro tip: don’t talk about politics right now (touchy subject for many)