Topic: The Guest List: A Series. Solidify The ConnectionSponsorsCream City Marketingwww.creamcitymarketing.comSpearitywww.Spearity.comRecapWe talked about ways to get noticedHow to build a guest listDiscussed a lot of marketing and sales last weekThis week we are focusing on rapport building4:00 How do we build rapport?
If you are not a marketer that’s okayDuring rapport building stage, you still have to make it about the guestRead “how to read friends and influence people”There are things you can do to make sure people are getting back to youYou will fail and people will say no that’s okayDon’t always make small talkNeed valueNeed to make a businessEstablish relationships# 1 thing in building rapport is responding in a timely mannerAlways say “thank you for your time” not “sorry”Most people will get back to youFollow their cadence8: 20 Follow traditional communication
If they don’t like email and tell you that DON’T EMAIL THEMMost of these individuals have people managing their communication and will tell you to do soWhen you make the ask this is when you will get that response to get in touch with assistantIf they say no it doesn't always mean noCould need to build more rapportThe “no” is a request for more information - MNot meNot nowNot thatRapport, rapport, rapportIf you hear a no, learn why and you will improve12: 00 “Thank you for your patience”
ReframeDon’t apologizeSay thank youThis can change the nature of the whole conversationA lot of time coaching is spent on languageVerbalTextEmailWritten wordLanguage has to be very intentionalMost communication we get now is not verbalWe lose all nonverbal communication this wayMost of the meaning of conversation is verbal so this is hardPeople assume things about written textThe “voice in your head” is not what they are hearing through the screen16:10 Break Through the Noise
Messaging needs to be positiveThe positivity sticks out amidst all the noiseOnce you solidify the yesYou think “I did it!”Then people get distractedBut you need to continue the rapport buildingRemember that your deal is not closed until money is in hand, they are on the show contract is closed